stop worrying about what others think

It’s ok to do this sometimes. Sometimes you want to do something that will make you feel good because the other person feels good about you. Then, then it’s ok.

my pretend conversation with a particular FRENEMY:

Look,(insert name here)I’m tired of you always telling me what to think and how to dress and what to say. I’ve ignored your TwIsTeD ways for long enough and it’s time for you to leave. You no longer hold power over me and your opinion is just that__YOUR opinion. It is not the gospel or the law…..so THERE!!

time for me to live my life away from the self-rightous and superfluous opinions of deadbeat friends. In 2009, i will only associate with those who want the best for me and are genuinely trying to encourage me.
mantra of 2009: be who you are and say what you feel because those who matter don’t mind and those who mind don’t matter.

I dont ever see this happening but oh well!

Though a touch trite, “Those that matter don’t mind. And those that mind don’t matter.”

=)

Even while doing the 43 things I was wondering what everybody else was going to think and I don’t even know you have been trying very hard to be as honest as possible, and I’m truly hoping this helps me. You know, find a good direction in my life think my whole life I’ve had a fear of being successful, in a couple of times I have been successful in business in life etc. I had an extremely successful business, which I sold to early I had a somewhat successful relationship, which I didn’t think I was ready for it as well is the fear of success. I always think that people are gossiping about me talking behind my back, creating some kind of conspiracy. When for the most part, I’m pretty sure most the world hardly does I exist. Why I think this way, I don’t know. There’s probably a psychological reason or name for this I’m sure I’m hoping I’m not the only one. If you know, I mean.

I used to worry what people thought about me and i tried to act the same as others to fit in. But i have now relized that it is much better to not worry about how people see you and that they will like you for who you are.

This will be an awesome thing to get over.