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How to learn how to forgive by bshoegal

"LIFE CHANGING"

How I did it: First, it's a decision that you have to make on your own. When you are finally decided to do it.. just do it..
don't wait 14 years like me to find happiness.. when you feel free of all those chains that were torturing you will feel like you are 100 pounds lighter!!

second, ask God for guidance he will get you there!! I PROMISE!!! write down everything that you are mad or angry about with that person.. write all down.. then.. say out loud that you forgive this person for all the things they did to you and tore the piece of paper in small pieces.. then throw it away - pray to God to give you forgiveness and give you strenght... then burn the paper and proclame yourself FREE -- after you are done.. call that person and let them know... how much they hurt you because they might even know they did... and tell them that you are free and that they are forgiven..

this will be one of the coolest things you've done in your life.. but you have to want it..

I forgave my dad for abandoning me.. and forgave his now wife.. for being the reason why my dad left me.. now i have a good relationship with them and i'm working on making up for those 14 years... :)


 

Dec 02, 11:24AM PST | 1 comment | 2 cheers


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    Merlynsparadise is trying to not be impatient!

    Not sure this will ever happen 2 years ago

    I can’t say if this will ever happen. I have tried a few times this year to forgive people, but it ends up that I just ignore the problem at hand, not really forgive, just try and forget. Is there a difference? I think so. Like I said I will continue to attempt to do this for my own well being, but not sure if it will ever happen. Like forgiving myself, I can’t do that either. If I could, I wouldn’t feel so bad about what happen out on the farm two weeks ago, and I would still have what I wanted so much. A chance, a time for someone else to see me and for me to see them as something special.

    Aug 13, 2007, 01:53PM PDT | 0 comments


    Merlynsparadise is trying to not be impatient!

    Untitled 3 years ago

    I just don’t know if that will ever happen, but I’ll put forth a good effort. First the most recent things. I forgive my brother in law for getting in the middle of my divorce, but I don’t forgive his girlfriend for the e-mail. See I can do some things, just not everything.

    Nov 16, 2006, 11:33AM PST | 1 cheer | 1 comment


    thelastpolka

    Untitled 4 years ago

    It was difficult, but once i understood that I must learn to forgive before I could heal, it was all I could do. I wanted to feel better, and I didnt want to continue to have hard feelings towards others. That in the end will eat you alive.

    Jul 19, 2005, 08:20AM PDT | 0 comments



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