Treat my husband like he is the best husband in the world (cause he is)

LOL! I love our initials. (giggle)
But seriously, I do treat my husband like the best husband in the world. He really is the best (for me). And I tell him all the time how wonderful he is. BUT I decided to put this on the list to remind myself when I’m on here (all the time!) that I really DO have the best husband in the world.
Cherish your wonderful husbands ladies! They are few and far between!

Yesterday it was all about M. We went out shopping and spent over $700 on a new wardrobe for him. This is something he would never do for himself. It was nice to see how this made him so happy. He works so hard for us. He needs to look good!

My husband and I have a unspoken debate going on in our house. It’s the “Which way do you think the trash can should face” debate. We’ve lived in this house since February and purchased this trash can then. For some reason, every time I face the trash can the way I think it looks best and should be faced, I walk by and it will be faced in a different direction… the direction my husband thinks that is should face.

Funny thing is… neither one of us has ever said anything to the other about it. We just go about our days, moving the trashcan back and forth. The reason I have never said anything is because it doesn’t seem like something that’s worth debating or arguing about… however if we are still moving the trash can after all this time, maybe one of us should finally bring it up.

The right thing to do would be to let him have the trash can face the way he wants it to, but it honestly really bugs me for some reason… isn’t that stupid? It’s a stinkin’ trash can for goodness sakes.

What is the one thing that you and your spouse non-debate about? What does he do that really gets on your nerves, however you just live with?

Do you think I should bring up the trash can thing? Do you think we should just go about moving the trash can whenever we feel the need? Do you think herein lies a deeper issue? :)

I’ve spent the past 2 years trying to convince myself that I was the source of all our major issues. Now I’ve realized that I’m not and that even if I was, the relationship isn’t working. And it’s time to stop clinging to something detrimental to my life.

This is a life long goal, but I feel like I’m doing well, I can always do better, but can’t we all. I don’t want to have this staring at me making me feel guilty for the times I’m not so nice, I’d rather count it done and just keep trying to be nice more often than not, which I am. It’s a mutual respect thing

Last night I got home from visiting my sister for the weekend and there were TWO bouquets of flowers waiting for me and a book (autographed!) that I’ve been wanting to read. I really DO have the best husband in the world!

He is such a great dad. When he’s with them, they’re both so happy. I love to just sit back and watch them laugh and play. I’m lucky to have him not only as my husband, but as their father…

I really really am!

I love being on vacation with my husband. What is it about vacations that make the spark in our relationship alive again? I’m affectionate, I’m fun, I’m loving… things that I know I probably am not at home with him.

How can I bring that vacation spark back into my marriage? We are happy and are in love, but I need to be more affectionate. I’m going to try and recreate that “vacation” feeling more often. He needs it, I know.

He has to be! LOL