keep my virginity

You should give it away to the person you are going to marry so it would be worth it.

Still hard
I’d rather lose it for good reason, then keep it for bad. And really it’s not losing, I’m giving it away. Still intact though. I overthink a lot, which is good, and bad.

This is hard

same here

lol

I can still look hot for you! You just can’t have it!

Why does it seem like everyone is giving it up these days? It drives me crazy.

Then again there’s that question, am I just plain afraid of it? That could hinder my relationship just as much as having sex too soon! So, from holding back my feelings, I could be holding back our relationship as well. An interesting perspective I guess I was talking to my friend about that. I know for me it’s not the case, I’m not afraid of sex (Ok, that was a blatent LIE – I DON’T WANT BABIES!) but something in my teeny little brain of mine which is currently overloaded with physics equations tells me No! You have enough going on in your life! Which is absolutely true.

Just other ideas.

You are strong if you can hold it untill marriage. I’m saving mine for marriage. Its hard being a guy. I wish my urges would go away….

This is hard. I have a friend who just gave it up after 4 months.. I was complaining to another friend about it, saying how I thought that was way too soon.. the look on her face was like “uhh.. 4 months IS long in today’s society, making it past 2 months is good too.”
This is so confusing!

Honestly, a part of me would love to experience that next level and another part is like no no no no!!!!!
It’s difficult, I’ve never really been faced with this choice before, and I can see how hard it really is. From an outsiders perspective it’s like “oh sure, just say no!” but honestly when your in that moment, it’s hella hard.

I’m still sticking to my guns though, this is something I’d like but I don’t NEED, nor does our relationship need it. Our relationship is strong, but do we really need this addition? Maybe one day, but not now.

I want to keep my virginity untill I get married.
It’s difficult because theres a lot of temptations.
I can lose my virginity anytime I want but I choose to save it.
Is there a medicine thats the opposite of viagra..?lol