get a date

This is not a big priority today. The last GF was such a disaster to be with, that I’m just not in a hurry anymore. Besides, her extremely bad habits illuminated my 2EW’s more ordinary bad habits quite well.

I can now see quite easily that I did exactly what I read not to do on a certain chalkboard: I SETTLED for my second wife. Between her and the ex-GF, and some of my other history, I’ve decided that this is just not going to happen anymore.

So now my immediate aim is to improve my own character. I do that for no other reason than its own sake, but I do agree with the theory that the better a person you are, the better the people you will attract.

That’s not entirely true: after periods of personal growth, I also seem attract some more of the wingnuts – but their being such is also becoming more immediately apparent, and I’m getting more strength and grace to not entertain their offers! :c)

Well, I just broke up with my gf, so I guess I need to do this goal again. Hopefully a little more of the “I just want to hang out with a female somebody” Platonic type this time…LOL

I suppose this goal is “complete”, though it didn’t exactly work out how I’d originally intended it. The relationship is not exactly platonic – though it’s more or less abstinent – and has a lot more potential than I was originally looking for. I know, I know, sucks to be me!! LOL

But I normally “have relationships” more than I do “date”, and what with my track record, I’m trying to not make the same mistakes time and time again. Yes, I need to make NEW MISTAKES!!! ROFL!!! (Hopefully better ones.)

So if you can, please pray for me…Thanks, and God bless you! :c)

been single for about a year, had a bad break up with the ex and needed to focus more on me which i did. now i have a good job, going to school and live in a house that i like. would like to find someone who can make me laugh and has goals in life. likes to go to movies, working out, skating, bowling, and just hanging out with friends at a komets game. I’m 25, Caucasian, tall, brown hair, blue eyes, athletic build.

...with a friend. just got out of a harsh relationship and guys crushing is a bit much yet, but a date sounds fun, friends maybe?

I’m separated from my F2EW and would like to exchange some attention with a person of the female gender. I’m still married, so we’re talking about a PLATONIC date, i.e. I’m looking for what they call an “activity partner”. It beats getting back with the F2EW out of loneliness, horniness, etc.

Unfortunately, it seems that every woman on the Internet just wants to use a man for sexual purposes, so I’m a little screwed!! (Or not!! LOL)

I haven’t given up on women, but I’m going to have to be a LOT more selective in the future. So what better way to test for appropriate motivations and the potential for friendship?

I want a man who lives close to me and who is very cute.

if only they would ask me out…if only ANYONE would ask me out, sounding desperate much?... to bad i am

Well, I’ve been stabbed in the back for years, resulting in no dating experience. I’m in my early 20s, and yet I’ve never had any type of romantic experience. If anyone wants to help me it would be much appreciated.

Ok, I’ve had a few & haven’t felt real encouraged. Seems there are 2 types of guys out there…1)the ones who are “interviewing me” on the first date as wife material & by the 2nd or 3rd date they are talking about what vehicle we would need to get to drive all of our kids around in. 2)the ones who say “You have 3 kids?!” or “You’re kids are too young.” then I never hear from them again. My God…are the only options to either make plans for the rest of our lives or cut all contact because of the kids as soon as we meet?! I’m SO FRUSTRATED!! How about being friends (maybe not possible for men to be ‘friends’ with an attractive woman?) or even just f_ _ _ buddies…jeez louise guys!!! Any advice out there?...