find my true self

I was going to call it ‘Be true to myself’ but then I realised my real problem here is I don’t know who my true self is.

I spend so much energy on doing the things I think I should be doing, but aren’t really what I want to do, or think are right to do, I’ve totally lost site of my own values and beliefs.

It’s become a problem because the values I’m passing on to my children aten’t always my values. They’re often my parents values, or societies values, or the values I use when I don’t have the courage to do or say what I really believe

This leaves my kids confused, and me feeling like I’ve let them down.

So, step number 1, find my true self, and my true values, then move on to being true to them.

I believe I am a very spiritual person. I thought I knew who I was…then I got addicted to a very bad drug. I thought it wouldn’t happen to me. I was wrong. Now I am cleaning myself up. Luckly I don’t have to do anything in the physical world except, get over the DTs. Now to find myself all over again. Here I go…wish me luck world!

i thought i had my true slef but seeing all those new girly clothes and high heels brought me back to something i dont want to do…..i even NAMED my two personalities…..:(

Definitely worth doing. I’ve written an essay on this called “Know Yourself” on my website if anyone is interested.

I have done a lot of self reflection lately and have found the real me. Sometimes I like what I see sometimes I don’t. But my realizing who I am one the inside it will help me be truly happy and confident.

but lately I have realized I am not who I really am when I am in a relationship. I have always been a strong, independent woman who knows what she wants. But in this relationship I feel that I am compromising more than I should be. I think that i need to find something to devote some of my energy into that is exclusively mine. Something that I don’t have to share with anyone.

but lately I have realized I am not who I really am when I am in a relationship. I have always been a strong, independent woman who knows what she wants. But in this relationship I feel that I am compromising more than I should be. I feel walked on. I think that i need to find something to devote some of my energy into that is exclusively mine. Something that I don’t have to share with anyone.