become more decisive

I’m horribly indecisive. I always let other people make decisions for me. I’m too afraid to speak up for fear of offending them, I guess. All that does is get myself pushed around. I don’t want to be pushed around. I want my voice heard. I need to make it heard. I definitely have opinions; where are they when I need them most?

My depression makes it very difficult to stick to a decision, I always regret it shortly after making my mind up, and then blame myself forever about it. But I’m trying my best to be decisive, and stick to my guns and actually achieve my goals, rather than just abandon them. This year things are going to happen because I’m going to be decisive!

Well worth doing it enables you to act more confidently and to be happy with difficult decisions without re-visiting the problem.

I have become more decisive, its taken quite some time 2 years or more. Part of it is becoming more aware of what I want, and being comfortable with just deciding on something without having to justify the decision to myself. Just because I have decided then thats enough now. Amazing!

This is an ongoing effort. I used to be so indecisive that I would walk right across town not being able to decide which resturant to eat in. Then the choice was made for me when the last one was reached! Luckily it was a pretty good one ;-)

maybe ;-)