do you remember the last time you said what was really on your mind? for me there are only a select few that i can really speak to without thinking should i say this, or what if this might offend someone. It’s like when someone asks the question ” does this make me look fat?” what do you say? do you say to them yes or no? the honest answer would be no, but you say yes anyways because you respect them to much to tell them the truth so you lie to them. but is lying the right way to show someone you really care for them? who knows because if you where to tell them the truth you might lose them as a friend and then the whole purpose would have been for nothing, but if it means nothing because they never wanted to hear the truth in the first place but you tell them anyways and they end up hating you for it and you find out who your true friends was it worth it?
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I’m finally taking this off my list…
I like to think that I only say things I really mean. It’s not easy but I’m definitely a lot better than I used to be.
I can’t say this always makes me the most popular person ever. Sometimes people just don’t want the truth…but I’m not going to lie anymore, white lie or not.
I’ve actually gotten better at this. I mean, I only say sorry a few times a day now…I dunno. I really focused on it for a few days and now I think I’m getting better. It’s becoming something I don’t have to think about too much anymore.
But I’m not taking this off my list yet.
i’ve always been afraid of hurting other people’s feelings. it’s not that i want to go and insult someone, or say somehting cruel, but just….no more small talk and bullshit.
