Be nicer to people.

My sister and I helped my best friend move into his new apartment. I tried my best to make the experience fun (moving tends to inherently suck). I think it worked, and he appreciated our help a lot!

I am also trying to gossip less. I caught myself gossiping today and was in a horrible mood afterward. Talking shit about people makes me feel really ugly, and when I don’t do it I feel really good…hah go figure.

I want to write an apology letter to an ex-friend, but it’s taking me forever to get started and I’m super afraid.
However, I do want to right this wrong so I’m hoping I can start on it tonight.

UPDATE: I wrote it, edited it (heh), and sent it today. Now I just have to wait and see if it even gets a response.

UPDATE II: well, she accepted that I am sorry, but does not want to be my friend again. Can’t say I realllly blame her that much. Of course it hurt my feelings that the apology wasn’t reciprocated in the exact way I wanted, but at least I got it out.

I’ve been really trying on this. It’s one of my harder goals because it’s not so easy to track…I mean what is “nice” anyway? But I’ve been trying, and I think some people have noticed.
The most recent example I can think of is that I helped a couple of my friends find a hotel to stay in while they come visit me. Unfortunately my apartment is too small to accommodate them, so I helped them find cheap hotels.

I’ve been kind of an asshole lately, so I’m going to start being more considerate.

after seeing what a jerk my sister was all the time, i decided to change my attitude, and it really paid off. now i have a great group of people that i hang out with and i don’t have road rage and so i dont speed or get into accidents at all.

Ever since I began working at Panera Bread I;ve been so mean. I say bad things and judge everyone before I meet them. I also have a huge smile and dimples, so it just makes me meanness easy to cover up. It’s the reason I can never have a close relationship with anyone because I’‘m so brutal in judging them. I can’t seem to find a good thing about anyone anymore!!

I pretty much hate everyone haha well not everyone but most people, well me, one of the meanest people you will meet works in customer service haha well I guess you will do almost anything for dat paper! haha I am learning to be nicer to people

There are some International Students at my school, I try to be nice to them, and I think I’m doing pretty well! I got to know more about their culture, their language and a whole bunch of cool things.

I’m not really happy with some of the kids in my school, they’re so mean to Asian kids. I try to be nice to them, too. I’ve also learned that if you be nice to people, they will be nice to you:)

- Mailed off a box of perfumes to a friend of mine as a Christmas gift. She is so not expecting this. It will be surprising. I hope she likes it.

- Bought another friend an item from his wish list

Since I have worked at starbucks.. im far more compassionate to others.