worshipper wielding Sword!
enjoying...
1 week ago
....this.season!
despite recent disappointments i can see that the focus to love me is genuine. grateful :)
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How to fall in love with myself
It made me
happy
 "The sky was so dark for so long, my head was always spinning, feeling lost in my own dark little hell until I saw just a smidgen of the sun."
How I did it: Let's see what did I do? A few years ago I saw on this movie, I was flipping th channels and this father figure was talking to the daughter figure. She thought about meeting her new father and she didn't like herself, she thought it would all go bad. And he said, "I want to hear you say out loud 'I am beautiful.'" "What's the going to do for me? I don't feel beautiful!" "Say it!" "I am beautiful?" "That was weak. Louder!" And then after a few times she said it passionately. It really helped her feel more confident about meeting her blood father. I forget what the movie was called because that scene was very important to me. I thought about what she did, it seemed a little fast for me but I got the premise. To believe a lie, and getting used to it after telling yourself it over and over you begin to believe it. So I was thinking about how I could do that. I researched a little on auto-suggestion and than I said an affirmation for a few weeks. "I am divinely fit and healthy." "I love myself." "I am beautiful." It took me along time to belief it like a month, but I did do it. The results were fantastic. I became more confident in speaking to other people. When I was feeling self confident people seemed to like me more. I don't think I really adored myself though. It took me a while to realize it would be good to appreciate some positive aspects of my body. And just a few ago I tried that, and before that whenever I looked in the mirror I loved the look of my sexy body.
Lessons & tips: You should continue to hammer thoughts or things you would like to self suggest into your mind if you wish to be more outgoing or adoring of yourself. Resources: Think and Grow Rich Napoleon Hill. Mutant Message Down Under Marlo Morgan The Secret movie google search engine
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1 month ago
I would very much like to fall in love with myself for so many reasons that I can think of. I want to be not bothered by other people’s thoughts, opinions, actions, talking or anything about me. I want to be completely unbothered by other people’s problems or otherwise not to care about them. I want when someone is telling me their problems, or anything like that, to always unoffended, unaffected, but it all. I want my feelings to remain invulnerable above all else. I want never to be bothered by anything. I want to feel so good, and not care about other people’s problems. I want to fall deeply in love with myself.
I think I will get there if I find things to fall in love with myself about.
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10 months ago
i want to fall in love with myself, then I will feel happy and at peace with myself.
Emma Serianni is studying! (kind of):-p
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12 months ago
I need to love myself before I can love someone else with all my heart <3
kittycutts is a Healthy Extroverted Tree Hugger, or so the Robots think.
i do love myself, and i take care of myself. or at least try to, and this hasnt always been the case in my life.
i just dont conceptually like this phrasing, and im not ashamed to say so, so rather than remove it, im going to “give up”.
all the things on my to-do list are constructed to promote this general idea of self-love and – more importantly – honesty. this is too general of a goal, and too conceptually open.
Scared
20 months ago
i am scared to open up and love myself. maybe i am hoping to find a better person? or my expectations of myself are too high? i have a relationship with myself but its not solid.
Untitled
20 months ago
I need to do things for myself… today i gathered some flowers that smell nice and put them in a bowl with some water. maybe in the morning my room will smell nice ?
I am in a loving relationship with myself :)
21 months ago
I feel it in my heart now. I am loving who I am, learning to love who I have been and growing to be who I would love to be. I am coming to know so much more about myself and to appreciate myself and my talents more. I love my life more now.
Its been a battle to get myself on track to growth. Its a battle everyday to continue to do the work, but because I love myself more I am not able to just give up. My love for who I am has grown so strong that now I know that I need to give myself rest and time to repair so that I can grow stronger. That is what this goal has been about and I can say that I feel as though I have completed it and have the general good feelings about myself that I intended to create.
I wish everyone who begins this journey to embark upon it. The travel we do within our souls and minds are most beautiful and awe inspiring than the most beautiful of places on Earth.
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I feel something today
21 months ago
I am starting to feel a sense of peace with myself and with my life. I feela shift in my heart, its almost like I am meeting a whole new me. I like who I am becoming everyday disciplined determined,focused and courageous. I am the one I have always wanted.I wasn’t trying to fall in love with anyone but me. The feeling that I was desperately looking for outside of myself was always inside of me.Now at 24 I am becoming able to give it to myself, I have the skills and the courage to look within even when it feels funny. I am finally in love with me !
I purged my 43T list today. I took off all the long term goals and just focused on what I can do with this year. If I complete a significant amount of work on or complete each of these tasks I know that all the other goals I had will be a help of alot easier. I am okay with pushing things back so when the time comes for a goal then I will be able to do it well.
Loving yourself means knowing yourself, and I know my list was unrealistic until I removed those goals.
