worshipper wielding Sword!
enjoying...
2 weeks ago
....this.season!
despite recent disappointments i can see that the focus to love me is genuine. grateful :)
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How to fall in love with myself
It made me
happy
 "The sky was so dark for so long, my head was always spinning, feeling lost in my own dark little hell until I saw just a smidgen of the sun."
How I did it: Let's see what did I do? A few years ago I saw on this movie, I was flipping th channels and this father figure was talking to the daughter figure. She thought about meeting her new father and she didn't like herself, she thought it would all go bad. And he said, "I want to hear you say out loud 'I am beautiful.'" "What's the going to do for me? I don't feel beautiful!" "Say it!" "I am beautiful?" "That was weak. Louder!" And then after a few times she said it passionately. It really helped her feel more confident about meeting her blood father. I forget what the movie was called because that scene was very important to me. I thought about what she did, it seemed a little fast for me but I got the premise. To believe a lie, and getting used to it after telling yourself it over and over you begin to believe it. So I was thinking about how I could do that. I researched a little on auto-suggestion and than I said an affirmation for a few weeks. "I am divinely fit and healthy." "I love myself." "I am beautiful." It took me along time to belief it like a month, but I did do it. The results were fantastic. I became more confident in speaking to other people. When I was feeling self confident people seemed to like me more. I don't think I really adored myself though. It took me a while to realize it would be good to appreciate some positive aspects of my body. And just a few ago I tried that, and before that whenever I looked in the mirror I loved the look of my sexy body.
Lessons & tips: You should continue to hammer thoughts or things you would like to self suggest into your mind if you wish to be more outgoing or adoring of yourself. Resources: Think and Grow Rich Napoleon Hill. Mutant Message Down Under Marlo Morgan The Secret movie google search engine
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in all my years i have just discovered how important this is…
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