help my husband lose weight

I don’t want to hurt him, but it’s come to the point that I’m really not physically attracted to him anymore. I never thought that would happen. He was heavy when we got married almost 7 years ago, but now he has gained even more weight, I think he is getting close to 400 pounds. He is a tall man, but that’s still a lot. He is not interested in changing his habits, but I still want to find a way to motivate him and encourage him once he gets motivated. Part of the problem is that I am very thin, so I CAN’T diet with him or I’d be skin and bones in a week!

I need to buy less junk food and more fruit, use less butter and salt in my cooking, and exercise with him on a daily basis. This has been an ongoing battle and will be difficult to accomplish.

he feels so much better about himself and we’re going to continue watching what he eats and we’ll start working out once we get back to our apts where we have the workout room!

well he came in the day we left for louisiana for Christmas leave and told me that he had to lose 10 lbs by the 6th of January. Well guess what, even w/ the holidays and all of the rich food he STILL was able to lose his weight and only has 3 lil lbs left to go!