identify 43 things I don't like about myself and change them

21) I love cooking but too lazy to do it often

22) Need no be more active instead of just spending most of my spare time using the internet

23)I wish I put my ideas into action more.

24)I wish I had a talent or 2

25)I feel I’m leading a life without any purpose

26)I need to set some goals & purpose to liven my life

27) I am ignorant to what is going on in the world.

28)Need to read more on wide range of topics instead of just story books

29)Upgrade myself more on career aspects

30)Wish to be more all-rounder

31)Want to improve my self-confidence & self-esteem

32)Improve my driving skills & be a more confident driver

33)Be more well spoken

34)Be studious & well educated

35)Want to be a more outstanding person then to be a regular average person

36)I rarely do chores without being asked or nagged at

37)I get annoyed at my parents very often or even to the little issues

38)I’m very impatient

39)Need to improve on my personal grooming

40)I could be more nicer than now

41)I want to spend my time & money usefully & wisely

42) Need more self-improvement

43) I never really bother trying to change myself, but now that I have listed the 43 things that I don’t like about myself.I will try to do something about it and change little here & there!

11) I need to keep in touch with my dear friends more often.

12) I don’t seem to succeed in saving money.Even if I do for a month or so… later I spend it!

13) I have poor eating habits.

14) I really get irritated by loud noises.

15) I’m not disciplined enough to focus on my studies

16) I hate making phone calls, enquiries.

17) I don’t take criticism very well.

18) I don’t know & don’t really get myself involved in household issues like paying the bills & expenses…

19) Have very poor General Knowledge… be it local news, recent news, foreign news or daily household expenses issues.

20)I’m not very sporty or active

1)Being a procrasinator

2)Doing things at the last moment

3)Being always late for work

4)Being too nervous & shy when i’m the centre of attention during social gatherings or events eg.Being Randomly picked for games or activities. But I enjoy doing an activity as a group though!

5)Being very consious about what others will think about me

6)Not being forthcoming in expressing my opinion and ideas even though I know that they are good ones.

7)Stage Fright/Fear of public presentation

8)Short-Tempered at times

9)Being lazy & not doing any physical exercise

10)Not socializing as much as i need to.

I hope I find everything about myself on this

1. i have bad manners.
2. i am a rebel without a cause.
3. i play devils advocate ALL the time. I have a hard time agreeing with people.
4. i’m insecure but i act like i am better than everyone.
5. i hate my hair. it’s fried. i constantly dye it because i get bored.
6. i have no motivation to clean or help around the house.
7. i’m judgemental.
8. i’m cynical. i have no desire to be in a relationship or marry. my friends are having kids. i feel like it’s something not necessary in my life. sometimes i think i might be jealous that they’re ready to start their lives and i’m not.
9. i have a huge nose. and it’s not attractive.
10. i’m poor.
11. i have a hard time going to my classes. i end up making poor grades because college is so hard. and i give up too easily.
12. i never take the easy way out. when things are offered to me i turn them down.
13. i try to fish compliments out of people to make myself feel better.
14. i have anxiety that feels like it’s taking over my life.
15. i don’t like the things i used to like.
16. i’m underweight, out of shape and smoke too much.
17. i am scared to work out. i am scared of the gym.
18. i depend on people for my happiness.
19. i’ve been reclusive lately though. i am not happy doing the same old bullcrap i’ve been doing since high school.
20. i am scared of overworking myself and getting sick.
21. i am scared to travel.
22. i can’t save money.
23. i get annoyed and frustrated easily.
24. i give up easily.
25. i know what i want from life but i can’t figure out the steps i need to take in order to make them happen.
26. i don’t have a lot of close friends.
27. i let guys take advantage of me.
28. i drink too much.
29. i don’t care about my appearance like i used to.
30. i have a wart. and it’s grossing me out. but i am scared of removing it.
31. i need to take better care of my things.
32. i am a hypochondriac.
33. i feel like nobody understands me when i tell them my health symptoms. my doctor has told me repeatedly i am depressed but i refuse to believe that is what is wrong with me and i refuse to take meds for depression.
34. i am probably in denial.
35. i can’t follow rules. i feel they don’t pertain to me.
36. i hate my knees.
37. i have poor eating habits.
38. i feel like my parents hate me.
39. i talk too much.
40. i don’t trust anyone and not many people trust me.
41. i don’t like life the way i used too. i’m too stressed and allow it to affect every area of my life.
42. most girls hate me. and i hate them. i rarely get along with them.
43. i have heart palpitations and irregular heart beat from smoking. and it gives me anxiety and yet i still can’t quit smoking and drinking.

I REALLY NEED TO CHANGE, AND THE TIME IS NOW.
like right now.

I have so many good things about myself, but I feel like a freak because I feel I have so much wrong with me. Logically, I don’t have much more wrong with me than the average person, but I don’t want to be average. I want to be above average.
1) My hair: it’s too short, ends are dead but I don’t want to cut it any shorter.
2) My acne: I’m 22 and I still break out.
3) My skin is too dry on my face. It’s always peeling and flaking.
4) I think I have a lazy eye. Plus my vision is awful. I should get new glasses/contacts.
5) My pores are too big and pronounced.
6) I have too much facial hair. Gray upper-lip. Furry cheeks. Black whiskers on my chin.
7. My neck sits funny on my shoulders. Must be the bad posture.
8) My shoulders are too wide.
9) My arms are dry and hairy. I have red bumps on the backs of my arms year-round.
9) My hands are dry, and my palms are always red and deeply creased. They are my biggest embarrassment.
10) My breasts are too big and hairy.
11) My back has splotches of eczema.
12) My lower back is hairy.
13) My backside is hairy, bumpy, and dry.
14) Same with my girl-parts.
15) My thighs are pasty white, covered in ingrown hairs and stretch marks, and hairy.
16) Shaving makes it worse. I have scars from shaving ingrown hairs.
17) My knees are funky and they pop and crack.
18) My left hip always pops and shifts out of place.
19) My calves are abnormally large.
20) My lower legs are not only dry, but scaly.
21) My feet are DISGUSTING. They are always red, cracked, often bleeding, dry, and callused.
22) My right big toe is ingrown and disgusting.
23) My pinky toes don’t grow in right.
24) My toenails are unhealthy.
25) My feet are enormous (size 9.5-10 and I’m only 5’4”)
26) My feet hurt often, the bones don’t seem to sit right.
27) I am 25 pounds overweight.
28) I hate my cheeks. They are so big and fatty.
29) My natural hair color is dull, but I’m afraid to color it again.
30) My shoulders pop.
31) I get tendinitis in my elbows and knees.
32) My teeth are too close together to floss.
33) I have cavities I haven’t gotten filled.
34) One of my front teeth is yellow and chipped.
35) I don’t command respect.
36) I am annoyed by loud noises.
37) I don’t voice my opinion.
38) I try too hard at everything I do.
39) I don’t take criticism very well.
40) I always find things about myself that I want to change.
41) I always wish I was doing things better.
42) I don’t feel attractive and I can’t rationalize why my boyfriend still loves me.
43) I NEED reassurance.

1. I dont read any newspaper regularly
2. I drink too much coffeee
3. I procrastinate
4. I dont have “good” friends in this city
5. I have trouble getting out of bed
6. I dont have a fixed workout schedule
7. I eat out too much
8. I talk too much
9. I talk too much about myself
10. I dont know shit about finance or sports
11. I like to eat a lot
12. I am underconfident about my work
13. I am poor in advanced math
14. I am lazy to read research papers
15. I am single

Aw, why do you need to do this? It’ll bring yourself down!

Well, listen here, I’m considering this goal to be a self improvement goal. I don’t even think I can come up with 43 things alone, but I may… I just want to change a lot of stuff about me that gets on my nerves…

1… At times, I can be too sarcastic.
2… I forget to brush my teeth twice a day.
3… When I say I will call back, I never keep that promise.
4… I complain a little too much.
5… I procrastinate and make excuses.
6… I don’t pay attention to everyone.
7… I forget to take my pills twice a day…
8… I have pretty ugly teeth.
9… I never get around to practicing my bass guitar.10… My nose is always cold! Hmphh.
11… I don’t always tell the truth, which kinda sucks. :(
12… I use the “fake smile” when I’m not happy.
13… I just kinda linger around on 43 Things when I should be doing something towards my goals each and every day.
14… I have a bunch of pretty journals that I NEVER write in.
15… Whenever I try to be open, I always break down crying in the end.
16… I record a ton of stuff on TiVo and I never get around to watching them.
17… I go to sleep way in the AM, and get up in the PM.
18… I always dream of going places, but I never get out and go there.
19… I don’t feel very accepting about my body.
20… I play with my hair too much.
21… I slouch around in my PJs all day until my friends come over and ask to go play. I need to be more energized in the morning.
22… I worry that something bad’ll happen… Gah.
23… I don’t spend a lot of time with my family.
24… I don’t spend a lot of time with my friends.
25… I need to be more social.
26… I have to keep in touch with my dear friends.
27… I should stop signing up for crappy internet things that don’t pay off in the end…
28… I wish I put my ideas into action more.
29… I can be a little too judmental even when I say I am not.
30… I’m not very positive.
31… I like cooking, but I never do!
32… I have many ideas floating around in my head, but I don’t say them aloud.
33… I’m not as nice as I’d like to be.
34… I say I play cello when I never play except at school.
35… I don’t always say please and thank you.
36… I don’t walk my dog as much as I should…
37… I always assume I’m awesome at something when I haven’t tried it out yet.
38… The bottoms of my feet are disgusting!!
39… I need more self control!
40… I don’t eat my fruits and veggies.
41… I get very angry easily.
42… I spend too much time on the computer.
43… I can be really hard on myself.

Wow. That took a long time to think of… but anyways, I am going to cross it out when finished… :)

1. my acne
2. my hair
3. my thighs
4. my confidence
5. lack of education
6. my thumbs
7. i dont sit up straight
8. i cant wear heels
9. i bite my nails
10. i dont have parents
11. i dont have a best friend
12. my lips
13. my belly
14. my mind
15. i worry, worry
16. my memories
17. noone to lean on
18. i feel sooooooooo dumb
19. noone ever says anything nice to me
20. i wish i lived in full house
21. i wish i had a mommy
22. i feel so unloved
23 whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
24 im short
25 noone respects me
26 i feel like a ant
27 im pale
28 i feel unnoticed
29 i wish i had a dad
30 i wish i had money
31 i wish i had a talent
32 ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
33 whatever!!!!!!!!
34 i worry about everyone else
35 im always listening to everyone else
36 what to do what to do with my life
37 im getting old
38 i have small boobs
39 i have one crocked tooth
40 i feel soooooooo lonely
41 ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
42 i have no modivation
43 i never finish what i start

I’m not even one fifth through…oh well. I think I may make some separate and specific goals for some of the things here I’m going to work on right now.