learn not to take things personally

It all depends on the situation. One thing I realized was that people that I don’t care that much about don’t hurt my feelings, they just confuse me. I also learned that I have a thicker skin when I want something. Like I’m less likely to care if someone makes a rude comment to me when I’m trying to get some information out of them. It all depends.

when i am clear on where i want to go, and why i want to go there i can filter out negativity better. when i am wandering, unintentionally wandering, i generate my own “noise.” Add my noise with their’s and it’s a cacauphony… eliminate my noise, and their sound is but a kid shuffling his feet in the hallway… distracting only if i let it.