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He broke me into pieces.... 3 weeks ago

THE BREAK UP:
He ended up leaving me well it is very diffucult to explain but this is what happened like we were having the greatest time of out lives and then after having the best time ever at homecoming we wnt to his house and what he did was like very horrible he well this was before he like “slept” with me and he was my 5th one but like i mean he said he loved me and everythibng and then he just ended up leaving my by phone when i got home….saying he wasnt really ready for a relationship right now and it broke me in half i mean like ….
it was so diffucult because i have him first period “right now” and well like …. now for me it hard to fing or replace him even though he hurt me so terribly i dont know what i should do….

HOW I TOOK IT:

i took it very seriously to me it was one of the worst break up ever it was more like a hit it and quit it kinda thing i mean even now i still want hime back and i feel horrible for i mean,..... i cried and i thought i was going to commitn suicide but i decided that it was not really worth it in the end i felt horrible and he flirts with this girl that in this class which just makes me feel even worst for myself i dont know

A WEEK LATER

i just stopped caring for hin yet i still h ad some sad feeling for hime which makes me qwant him even now … as long as he dont sleeep with anyone else i mean i was his forst girl he slept with that why ithought that are relationship would be stronger anmd more powerful.

NOW:

i just feel like i dont care i mean ” NOONE IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WONT MAKE YOU CRY ” so now ….i have no idea i am still single now which kinda sucks and now i am looking :3

My Cell: (956)857-5734

I live in lardo FYI



XxAlmost_AngelxX is Starting

If you love me, then let go of me 1 month ago

We’ve been dating for a year and I realized now that I just started to get to know him and our goals in life are too different. He still lives with his parents and plans to stay living in that same house after his parents die. He wants to get marry and for me to move into that house. Also he’s 17 years older than me and though I thought we were alike, we barely share interests.

I want to break up with him, but he is too attached and I’d feel bad to leave him when he’s dad is dying from cancer. I want to be there for him as a friend, but he refuses to have me only as a friend. I have to do it!!!!!!!



dipa_ahuja Nothing jst being bore

i want to break up bt i am unable to do.. 6 months ago

hi.. i really want to break up with him. coz he always doubt on me, dont trust me. i always think to stay away n go far from him.. bt i jz cant ,

i cant imagine my life without him..

we have many times break ups.. bt withing few days.. we patched up

bt he never trust me so can a relation can be happend without trust..?



panjinyu see around

lose one 9 months ago

the society makes the people diffirent.

the mood makes the people varies.

the mind he got makes him losing himself.

so i just wanna turn off the light.

let the darkness surround me helpless.

if morrow i could see the solar shining on my face, i will try to got myself.

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this is a farewell to the past ,

i wanna have a visions of the future, what’s there waiting for me.

goodbye the one i was, hello the one i will be.



SO GLAD I DID IT! 11 months ago

sure, i’m lonely and i think about him about a million times a day, but man – i have so much time to myself and life is just so much better. i feel freer and i can do what i want to do! i love to lay in bed and read! no more dumb stallone/superhero movies EVER AGAIN



Just did it 11 months ago

I feel so weird and upset.



Back2beingsexy Living life to the fullest!

Question to self 14 months ago

Yes its been rough…but do I really want to break up?



Back2beingsexy Living life to the fullest!

7 years...of my love 14 months ago

and I’m only 19. Yes i’ve been dating my boyfriend since I was 12.(Got more serious over time + I was mature for my age)
We have had ups and down of teen years….but I am a woman now and he is not a Man. He’s still a boy finding his way. and I can’t wait forever.
I can’t keep hoping that one day he’ll be the man i’ve always hoped for.

Yeah he can make me laugh, and he truly knows me better that anyone in my life….like a best friend i could never let go of. But he has no job, no solid plan and I live in the real world.

I’ve thought about it….but I just don’t know how to let go of someone I’ve know for this long. and Love no doubt. but thinking about my long term happiness i know I’ll hate him if he doesn’t become what i want…and i don’t want to force him to change. I want him to want it.

I just can’t do it anymore…...........



NO! 22 months ago

I’m very heartbroken. He broke up with me last night, but isn’t sure of whether or not he wants it to be permanent. I DO NOT want this. It looks like it may be the real deal. I’m so sad. . . but he broke up with me, so what can I do?? Eat a pint of Ben and Jerry’s and listen to sad emo music. That’s what I’ll do . . .I’ll plan on having my pity party on Friday night.



tmccann17 22 months ago

I just broke up with my girlfriend…I care for her and would never want to hurt her intentionally, but it was time to end our relationship. I just wasnt happy. Life is too short to live life unhappy just so another person can be happy…

I worried for months about breaking it off. I hated knowing that I would cause her unhappiness. I just kept thinking that the sooner i did it, the sooner she would meet someone that would truly make her happy.

Just do it if you are 100% sure that the relationship is past the point of saving it.



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