Decide what actions will improve my self confidence and self respect

I am not likely to gain much $$ from my court case against exh. As a matter of fact, it is likely to cost me more than I will get back (IF I get anything back). This would be illogical to most people..but I figured yesterday that I have to go ahead for my self respect. ex mowed me over for decades. He had HIS way constantly. Everything was always slanted HIS way. Always. I have to AT LEAST stand up on this final issue. If I don’t prevail… WELL.

I am the one who decides what makes it past my lips!

perhaps I need to do something about my hair! My appearance lately is just frumpy..and yet I am just weary of the whole trying to look good thing. I know if I looked better on the outside I would feel better. I look a little worn out. Like my old car and the floors that need refinishing.

I’ll make a list of stuff I don’t know how to do (and want to do) and tackle something from it on a regular basis. Of course, all this is easy enough to contemplate..it is the DOING that is the rub!

long enough this morning to take the bull by the horns and research the whole Maine Coon cat situation. I am feeling LOTS better because I made a good decision and rose above the “emotionalism” of the situation. (well, finally….it DID take two days)

regarding no longer going to therapy. done.

I was just so irked by how it is run last time I was there. Now I need to decide whether or not I need to tell them why I am not returning. They probably won’t miss me and I won’t miss them!

once more before I FIRE him, since he seems to think he can charge me three hours for “research” and not take two minutes to return my call.
Additionally, I am going to contact the state bar with my complaints about him. For MY self respect!

I haven’t done that since September! The treadmill is a great alternative when it is raining hammerhandles and pitchforks!

and I talked about my fears. What I liked about my actions was that they were totally honest without regard for whether or not these people liked me, didn’t like me—whatever. I was very truthful.