forgive more easily

I’m getting better at this but my nature means i have a long memory. I don’t really bear grudges but i’m sometimes aware of things that have gone in the past. It would be great to say i could forgive everything but some things are easier to forgive than others.

I believe that as a human being one of the greatest things I can do is forgive. However, it is also one of the most difficult, esp. with people you love and who you expect to be “perfect,” which is extremely unfair. I want to be able to really forgive, not just give lipservice to the concept and “fake it.”