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How to get over my jealousy by sekine

"Hardest thing I've ever done in my life. It's been three rough years but I think I'm finally ready to be a proper partner to some lucky fella."

How I did it: Lots of self-help, examination of my childhood experiences and coming to grips with the causes and getting into some bad relationship situations that forced me to deal with and handle the jealousy until I don't feel those insane feelings anymore, and I lost the two dress sizes at the same time too!

Lessons & tips: The root cause is important and I found it was some nasty childhood memories that I had supressed. I had to recall them and then deal with my self worth. Now I'm too worth it to be jealous of some lesser being like another woman. Had to distinguish between jealousy and envy, and that is important.


 

Dec 03, 2008, 11:39AM PST | 0 comments


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    LoveFateWrite

    this is kind of a nonissue 17 months ago

    because i’m currently single and think i’m going to stay that way for awhile. and i don’t think i had a jealousy problem so much as he just couldn’t be trusted, so i’m going to mark this goal as done.

    Jun 14, 2008, 01:53PM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments


    Angel_Face09

    Untitled 2 years ago

    Mainly my jealousy of a certian elf girl… ;)

    Nov 17, 2007, 12:06PM PST | 1 comment


    WomensSelf

    JEALOUSY- Here's your answer 2 years ago

    Check out this awsome audio-article on jealousy. http://www.womensselfesteem.com/jealousyaudioarticle1.html

    Feb 12, 2007, 04:51PM PST | 1 cheer | 1 comment


    Wicked6efetish

    The evil green monster, JEALOUSY!!!! 3 years ago

    I hate myself!!! I am the most jealous person in the world. I have had this problem the last few years. My ex was so controling and jealous and I think it rubbed off on me. I have the most amazing fiance and he has NEVER given me a reason to think he would cheat. But whenever there is a pretty girl i Freak!!! So this is something I truly need to work on so that I can be happy!

    Oct 20, 2006, 10:43AM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments


    Tanya_xoxo

    i cant help it 3 years ago

    i have the worst jealousy problem. i have such a problem that i get jealous of my best friend if she hangs out with other girls. I know it sounds stupid but i cant help it at all. I guess this makes me selfish too. the real problem is i dont see myself getting over this problem anytime soon.

    Oct 03, 2006, 06:14AM PDT | 4 comments


    sekine is shopping for purple designer items!

    I'm Well on the Way 3 years ago

    I’ve bought 2 great psychology books from amazon and done a lot of soul-searching. I’m more in tune with myself, and I successfully dealt with a MAJOR jealousy trigger that my ex deliberately organized to push my buttons in the most severe way he thought possible. I amazed myself. I’m so happy. I would put this as an accomplished goal, except it’s still too soon to call it.

    May 19, 2006, 07:43PM PDT | 2 comments



     

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