get over my fear of men

I just realized that they’re not all assholes. You can’t let just a few losers dictate to you how you’re going to feel about all of them in general. Bottom line…just like there are bitchy girls out there but not all girls are bitchy, there are asshole men out there but not all men are assholes. And just because they’re taken or not interested or whatever doesn’t make them an asshole…it just means that those particular men aren’t the right ones, but they’ll still be nice to you and you know that (though it might not seem like it at times)...the good (and single) ones are out there. If you keep a positive attitude about it and learn to love yourself then that’ll show and that’s the best way to attract them :)
The world is kinda funny….what you think is what you get. If you think “all men are assholes” then all of the men you meet are going to be assholes. But if you change your thinking on that subject and start focusing on how fabulous you are, you’ll be surprised who you might attract into your life. :)