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How to be more affectionate
How I did it: I touch people more and I give my boyfriend more hugs and kisses in public and stuff. I don't know its hard to say lol. I just put on an effort.
Lessons & tips: Seriously take a deep breath and plurge for it
Resources: knowing that it makes my boyfriend feels good
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I want to NOT be affectionately awkward. Yeah. I said it. I am totally retarded when it comes to physically expressing my love and care.
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My friend MM left for boot camp last night. Hope he does alright. He’s a tough cookie, he treats me differently than other girls, which I’ve always credited to me being “tough” or “unfeminine” or “unapproachable”. Not really sure what it’s about or if my opinion is even close to the mark. Anyways, I hugged him goodbye… he maintained some distance, but I was happy with myself.
Now to see if I can figure out what that’s about. Since it doesn’t happen with anyone else I know, maybe it’s just his issue?
spontaneously kissed the hubby today. also, i felt a little more comfortable with contact. i need to get over this bubble.
my husband is so affectionate and i guess i never really had so much affection in my life, so i’ve sort of made a bubble around me that i’m not comfortable getting out of. i need to fix this!! it’s not his fault that i’m the way that i am, but he’s the one that is being affected.
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Hugged G&G, M&D, K but not J (I chickened out!) and M!
Now to expand beyond hugging. Although, I’m pretty good at other affection… it’s hugging that’s a bit more challenging for me…
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Ok, doing better! I initiated 2 hugs :) One with L.L. and one with A.G. Need to slow down, and enjoy them now.


