be more decisive

going off to school makes decision making seem even more uncertain a process. sigh.

I am the most indecisive person in the world. If a decision includes the choices and opinions of others then I take there account into it so much my reply will always be “I Don’t Mind Either Way”. I know it bothers other people around me so much that they rather not ask my opinion. It doesn’t help that I avoid arguments and dislikes as much as possible.

“Definitely” – did you see that?! Hehe. Yes, I’m sure.
I’m wasting a lot less time breaking my head about those little choices that don’t really matter. I decide for one of them, then don’t think about whether the other one might have been better.
I ended my relationship (very good decision), and I resumed the friendship I’d ended in my last comment (it was the right decision back then, and an excellent decision to change my mind now).
I’ll still keep this goal in my list for a little longer, though. Or maybe I should consider it finished..? – Ha, right decision to keep it then :)

It is so simple and true. I really liked this comment I read about avoiding indecisive people. Surely, you have to take responsibility for your own life but it helps to surround yourself with exemplary behaviour rather than indecisiveness, especially if you tend to be susceptible to that kind of behaviour… as, unforrtunately, I am ;-)

But I can change, and it starts today!

i need to get a job! that is my decision!
but lately ive been really considering moving and working abroad.. i have many questions and worries.. can i do this? can i leave my parents and live independently? can i live alone? can i find a job? can i be confident with myself and work? will i work hard? will people like me?

and i dont have a lot of time to do this.. its now or never.

oh i spend so much energy thinking about what I have that I don’t want; but god i can’t decide what i DO want!

I found a couple of good articles that ring true with me. They basically state that indecisive people are guided by the opinions/demands of others rather than of themselves. So, we need to silence the “shoulds analysis” and start listening to and trusting our instincts!

http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Build-on-Your-Success-by-Becoming-More-Decisive&id=1619261

http://human-resources-mgt.bestmanagementarticles.com/a-31826-how-to-be-more-decisive-in-business-and-in-life.aspx

i am working on this..

I don’t know :)

So I just decided that I finished this goal (pun intended).

I live alone; I am the only one who makes decisions in my household…which is important. I don’t know how long ago I put this goal on my list, but it was probably because I was going through a lot of changes and I felt weary. That’s no longer the case. I think everyone falters on the big decisions that need to be made and in those times, I do look to others for advice. But, the day to day, business as usual stuff is all me.

i need to make the decision and stick to it and stop being wishy washy like a douche.. i want people to feel confident in the decisions i make (when im asked to make a decision).

.. i decided to add more to this entry since ive been reading other entries where they cant make a decision in what to buy in a grocery store and what not. my indecisiveness is more critical where time and money can be jeopardized and my reputation in terms of being reliable/trustworthy to others.