find happy polyamourous relationships

We are a married couple 38 and 35 who have talked at lenght (last couple of years) about this. We would love to hear from a single woman who could come share our lives with us. We have a couple of kids and have a great dynamic flexibility to our relationship, yes we fight, but we make up too and thats fun. She is very bisexual and has great body, he is straight and a strong build. Not fussed about what you look like or ethnicity as we are mixed race couple but preference toward smaller breasted women.

This is not an ad, just a quest to talk and share ideas, no love lost if not compatible or interested, but very keen to get others ideas on this…

I’m in a three-way, committed and closed relationship. It’s been that way for a year and a half now. My first parter, I have been with for 6 and a half years. The second came along, at first, as my best-est best friend ever who was in a relationship with a terrible partner who neglected him, mistreated him and did many horrible and reprehensible things to him. I hated that man more than anything I’ve ever hated.

Eventually, the horrendous parter and my best friend had to move in with my first mate and I, ‘cause they had nowhere to go. I found it ironic at first, to have to live with the very person I hate more than anything else on the face of the planet. It was a humongous test of patience which I have lots of… but, that faltered, and I eventually told him exactly what I thought of him.

Some months later he moved out, thinking his devoted parter who he had mistreated for years would follow once he established himself financially. I knew that wasn’t going to happen. So, my best friend was single, and looking. It was pretty rough on me when he was “looking,” because I had already come to love him, and him getting “really close” to others interested in him made me jealous.

After spending some time thinking about having the best-friend as a second parter in our relationship, I proposed the idea to my first mate, and he thought it was alright. After a couple months of thinking about it further, I decided to go with it on the stipulation that we all don’t have sex together until I’m ready, ‘cause seeing my first mate with my now new second made me jealous and it was something I had to get used to… the idea of a “three of us.” I got over that several months in. And, several more months later, here I am now. In happy, working, three-way relationship… possibly four-way in the future. Who knows? ‘Cause just a few years ago, I couldn’t imagine being in the relationship I am in now.

My bf and I are looking for a single bisexual woman to join our family. We have two kids and love the great outdoors. I own my home in northern VT and would like it to find someone to move in and have a happy, loving home. Get a hold of me if you are interested or know someone that would be.

I think that it is very possible to have a happy Poly lifestyle, I just think that the road there is a tough one, but all good things are worth a extra effort.

I have never been involved in a poly relationship but have wanted to for sometime now. My boyfriend Joey and I have been trying to find a woman to join our relationship longterm, or even for play for about 2 yrs now. Our location is not a very good spot for meeting people with an open view on life. And the internet has not been a success yet either. Many people chat but when it actually comes down to meeting us ditch, which is understandable, it has to be a hard thing to meet a couple.

Still with our lack of success in our search, we trudge on. Someday we will meet the right girl and it will be worth it.

So yes I truly do believe it is possible, but not without effort.

no such thing, yo.

My wife and I have come to the understanding that we are poly. (While I enjoyed the lifestyle in my past, I never knew there was a name for it.) I have lived in both mff and mfm poly relationships before while my current wife was involved once in a bad mff relationship years back with her EX.

In the 2 ½ years together we have tried swinging, bdsm activities where we have kept female slaves, and had simple part-time relationships with a few females we have come to enjoy sharing time with both in and out of the bedroom.

Now we seek to find a single female or m/f couple who will enjoy sharing a long term lifetime with us as a real family. (If you know of anyone send or have them send us an email. We would enjoy seeing if things can work out.)

While our search continues it is nice to see that others on here are at least interested in learning about the lifestyle and its components. (Come on everyone. Post your questions, comments and concerns. Lets get this topic on top of the charts.)

Sir and lady EvenHand

When it works, it’s wonderful. My biggest advice. Communication. Everything will break down if even one person isn’t being completely honest with their loves AND themselves.

And I’m fortunate to have two life partners. I’m open to more love in my life, but I’m very grateful for the family we’ve created together.

I’ve been doing this a long time already.

Still, it’s important to keep doing it.

It’s the happy part that’s so hard.

And it’s hard because love is infinite but time, money, patience, and energy are not.