give my parents as much as they have given me

All the upbringing and that they made me to the person I am now- that is such a big gift. I simply have to thank them!

I have been trying to make a concerted effort to help around the house more. I love my mum VERY much and want to make her life easier. When she asks me to do something I do it without complaining. I ask her if she needs help, and even insist upon helping. I try not to argue about small things as much. I do things without being asked. These are small gestures, but I feel they help and let my mum know that I want to help and care about her.

we went to the market together with my sisters, drank coconut-like drinks, and went to have fruits at the roadside. then we drove home, winding on the road, beautiful view from the top when we stopped..

before i left, she was there, sitting on top of the stairs. after i said goodbye, she said, “come here”.
“why?” i said.
“just come”.
she held my face to hers.
“i just want to have a good look at you before you leave”.

speechless with a smile..
the best feeling any person could have before leaving home to study.

i want to move my mother out of the house we grew up in to a larger home in a safer neighborhood. She wants to have enough bedrooms for at least 2 of her children and their families to stay when they come home every two years for our family reunion. She needs at least 2 bathrooms. She also needs an enclosed garage for safety and to protect her car from the elements.

My mom also wants a nicer car with power windows and a CD player.

I also want to get a nicer car for my father who lives in LA.

I want to bless my parents for all the hard times they’ve endured on my behalf. I want to spend silly amounts of money on them and buy them everything they need…take care of their bills…send them on a vacation…buy them a hot tub. get them a new car – lavish them. They certainly deserve it…especially since right now, all of their extra money is going to me.

i should probably start by giving back the love they have given me, with a better attitude and more patience. i say that but its always so hard when im talking to them they never seem to understand where im coming from..!

They honestly don’t deserve it.
I happily give up this goal.

its what they deserve the helped us out now we need to give back the love

my parents are now old and need help and support. i go every day do the things they need but still leave them with their own independance which keeps them with their dignity, they appreciate everything i do for them but it also gives me a lot as i see them ticking along to their best ability. they have supported me through all my life and its now time i paid my dues and i do it with love,there comes a time when we all leave and i want to be there till the end knowing i gave then everything i could to make things easier on them in their latter years

I will never be able to do this. There isn’t enough time or even money in the world for me to repay them for everything they have done for me. But I want to try. :) They are incredible and I hope someday I can be at least half the parents they were and continue to be for me. :)