Know myself, love myself and be myself (and proud of it).

While in the process of completing my 60 day and more goal I’m going to work on knowing myself, loving myself, and being myself in order to not fall victim to deceitful men. I plan to write out what I want in a man however this is going to come in time. I have to have a list of non-negotiables before any man knows me personally.

I’m my self and no one els..
this is what i was born to be..
it’s obvios..it’s not something hard to see..
i’m proud..to be in the middle of the big croud..
and speek up,rise up and sing my words loud..
i’m a little bit shy..some times i cry..
what really matters that i always try..
you can like me,love me and even adore me..
because i’m adorable,cute and lovely..
i’m just sweet,gorgeous and bubbely
i’m the best you can think about..
i love myself and i’m proud ..

I lost my boyfriend about a year ago (break up, not death). Although there were days I hated myself, they soon left. I soon realized who I was. I’m funny, like really funny. Although everything doesn’t go perfect in my life, it is certainly entertaining! I have little commentaries on life that make me laugh out loud some days. I care enough about myself to take care of myself. Before I wanted a man to take care of me. Now I want a man to share myself with. I’m such a treat!

When would I know, that I’ve reached this goal?

Well it’s not that easy, I have an image of an person in my head, that I want to be. Sometimes I even feel bad when I’m doing things like I want to do them and don’t do them like this fictional person in my head. I guess, that’s what make things hard. Is it possible to be happy this way? -I don’t think so.
But how to change it? I don’t have many friends but one of my closest seems to want me to be someone else… Sometimes, it makes me feel so angry!! She makes it so hard for me to change and I really need to, because now, I don’t live life like I should – like myself.

I wonder if it would be good to tell her about it or to refrain from this friendship…

While knowing oneself is a lifetime process, I marked this as done because I feel, day-to-day, and it really is just a feeling, that I’m a complete person. I appreciate my depth, I feel original, and I’ve come to love a lot of the things that I used to be ashamed of. If I could offer any advice to the people out there trying to do the same, it would be to stop thinking about what’s cool and focus on doing what makes you happy. It will make a world of difference.

WHO AM I?
hi!!
i hope this question is a million dollar one, the one question which every one of us would like to be answered… well if its yes then here is the answer…..
when did u last think abt this question, what was ur reaction to this question, what was the situation which made u to think this question?
or have u ever thought of this question in your life…?
it’s in human nature to ignore those things in life for which he will not get any benefit,.. but the irony is that it’s nature’s nature to fill the ultimate benefit in such things which totally appear useless to human beings…
it is when human understand this principle, when he benefits from the nature..
so who r we talking abt, none other than human itself.. we often forget ourselves in the rat race behind money,wealth… we forget our basic needs, instead of feeding our needs we have started to fulfill the reason for earning money…
its time that we have to learn abt ourselves n rethink our life..
its time for some action… so get out of ur couch n start searching ur actual purpose in ur life….
enjoy the life,,.... :-)

hmmm… I really don’t know myself. I don’t know what I want to do in my life. i’m just going to the flow of my life. How stupid that even to speak against someyhing, I can’t do. I always think that it is wrong and could it be funny for them or in that way I will hurt someone which is make me feel really bad. Because of all annoying I heard I just thought that yeah maybe I’m just like that because it was they think about me. Like I’m stupid, weak, poser and everything. And it really affects my personality so much. I always talk with myself and into God. I always tell all my feelings. So crazy! Please help me!!!!

i feel like i’ve come to a place where i am who i am.

seems to be the part of me i’m having the most trouble with.
i don’t like it some days, some days i’m okay with it, and some days i’m in total denial and actually think it’d be ok to date a guy!

Pooey.
any advice?

“I am the guy” who will text you every single morning and tell you good morning! and every single night to tell you sweet dreams*

I am the guy who will hold you when you’re crying and wipe away your tears.

I am the guy who still thinks you’re beautiful with no makeup on, wearing sweats and a big t-shirt.

I am the guy who won’t pressure you to do things you dont want to.

I am the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren’t feeling well.

I am the guy who kisses you on the forehead.

I am the guy who’ll randomly tickle you just to hear you giggle.

I am the guy who doesnt kiss and tell.

I am the guy who actually LISTENS to you when you talk, and loves to hear everything you have to say

I am the guy who’s excited all day because i’m looking forward to our date that night.

I am the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants NOTHING MORE.

I am the guy who can’t help but smile when you walk into the room :)

I am the guy who’ll say i love you first because,...I’m not afraid to say it.

I am the guy who’s perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling.

I am the guy who won’t lie to you about where i’m going or where i’ve been or who i’ve been with…..y?

I am the guy who gets butterflies when he hears your name.

I am the guy who’s not afraid to tell his friends HE LOVES YOU.

I am the guy who doesnt mess with other girls when i have you.

I am the guy who doesn’t care about your imperfections and loves you more for them,....like cooking..?

I am the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset….....................