ohnicole is energized!
I really need to start thinking about ths because if someone is negative to me it can (and usually does) ruin my whole day.
It happened recently when I made the decision to move into the townhouse instead of a friend’s apartment (to help her out of the lease). I gave her a month’s notice and told her the truth – I was going to move into her apartment to help BOTH of us out (ie I wouldn’t have to pay a security deposit and she could get out of her lease) so when I found out that they were going to charge us a deposit and give us a 1 year lease it didn’t sound like it was helping me out any. I tried to smooth things over but she wouldn’t talk to me for days and at work she treated me awfully. Ruined more than one day for me.
