be more confident around guys

The most important of all things he smiles alot when he’s with you!!

this is definitely a huge problem for me. If only I could be myself and not completely mumble/make a face/not know what to say/laugh at inappropriate movements, then all would be well. And if I don’t do this soon I fear I will ruin my chances

i always feel like i have absolutly no confidence around the guys i want to impress. i kinda come off as boring, bland, and shy, and its a total turn off i know it. im pretty okay with the way i look, i just always feel down and stupid everytime i get a chance to talk to the guys i like. And…guys like confident girls, i need to work on having more confidence and come out of my closed up shell.

I’m not particularly shy as a person but for some reason, around some guys I get really shy and find eye contact difficult.
I think I over analyse and think the situation. Some people just make me nervous!

I think in more detail, it would be, being more confident as in – knowing what to say, what to talk about. I am not good at initiating conversations…I have tried and I think sometimes I ask too many Qs and not talk much bout myself. Maybe its all in the perspective. gotta treat them as I would my girlfrens?