be more outgoing

well, this goal is something that I’m incorporating into my daily life. It takes a whole lot of efforts in planning to be more outgoing, especially you need to realize where to go. Currently, I’ve been going to this church at school, gathering with a second Christian group, and renewing old connections with friends and teachers.

Don’t know if I’ve done enough. Time will answer whether or not I’ve done it correctly. But…I’m praying god (any gods not just Jesus alone ) to help me.

I now can talk to people anywhere, at least for the most part. YAY!

i didn’t really do anything. well i fell in love, and after that, nothing else really seemed to matter. i wasn’t scared of being embarrassed, i wasn’t shy at ALL. and eventually you just find things to say to people, and you become more outgoing.

I think i’m a “glass half empty” kind of person, i always seem to see the worst outcome for everthing, and i think its one of the reasons i don’t get out more, i’d like to though, enjoy a bit more of life while i’m still young.

So I’ve been told I have improved a bit. I guess I have. Yet there’s still MUCH MUCH MUCH more room for improvement.

I’m definitely able to small talk better. Well, we have to…and are somewhat trained on it.

I still have trouble striking up conversation, though. I can probably maintain it for a few minutes…but I still have to work on it. But woohoo for improvement! However slight it is!

My boss even gave me a book on how to be a better…uhh…speaker? Social-wise. I’ve just been too lazy to pick up the book. =P

This is something I seriously need to work hard on, just think positive though right? Man, I don’t know why but this just seems like a goal I’m going to have trouble achieving, but hey I’ll put my all into it and hope I can pull through. Peace!

It’s just so damn embarrassing when people apologizes for me in public, “Oh don’t mind her, she’s shy.”

Stop being so damn shy. I know that I’m better than some people, why not show it?

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I am finding it easier to speak to cashiers and other people in public places when I’m doing errands or out and about. I think this is a good start!