Make my husband happy

I completely agree with all said but in saying that how do I work on myself and how do I make the fear of losing him go away. Need confidence but don’t know how to get it

I clean and cook take care of the kids buy him gifts to let him know that i care, i go out on romatic fun dates with him it’s like one day i am the best thing ever but most of the time i am a screw up he gets so mad at me please help what else can i do? i am only human i do get jealous and little things like that does make us fight

since i decided that to look at family issues from another point of view, everything is going so much smoother. my husband sees the diffrence, he’s much less stressed now about my indifferences with his family

I feel like I can’t do anything right. I can’t make him happy. HELP!

Thanks josh!

My husband said I already make him happy. So I’m off to a good start.

read plenty of usuful things on the subject on relationships channel at about.com. It turns out chattering while spouse is concentrated on something is a big no-no.

another day without complaning, yeah! LOL

i finally understood where i hurted my husban dthe most – my relationships with his family and me being moody and unhappy (mostly because of the abov ementioned relationships). so i will do make an effort. we went to his sister’s yesterday and i wasn’t as bad as i usually am. it’s a drop in the ocean of all acceptance and tolerence and selfawarenece to come, but i started and plan to stick with it.

I was pregnant when Nic and I got married. I was about 2 months along. He always wanted me soooo bad when I was pregnant and he had to fight me to have sex. He wanted me even more when we were dating. Our baby is turning seven months in two days and my husband has absolutely no interest in sex. He told me that he’s not attracted to fat rolls. I’ve been doing everything in my power to lose the baby weight since I delivered. My diet consists of 700 calories per day and 30 minutes of exercise EVERY DAY; I DON’T CHEAT. I’ve already lost 30 lbs. and weigh less than I did when he met me, and he’s still not interested. He says it’s my weight, but then why did he date me and want me all the time when I was heavier than I am now!? I have a gorgeous face and the best body I’ve ever had in my WHOLE LIFE. At one point in time (before I delivered) he told me that he felt like one of those guys that has fantasies about celebrities, but that he was actually married to the one he fantasized about. He loves me, and he’s faithful, but for the past 4 months I’ve just been giving him oral. He’s not interested in me at all. Just my mouth.. GRRR it’s so frustrating. What can I possibly do?