Embrace being single!

I am still single and I amy well be for a while to come yet, but I have come to the point where I want to share my life with someone else again. I did embrace the past months of being on my own by building up my confidence and self-esteem and trying to learn more about myself and what I need and what I can give. I do think it’s important to be able to live well as an individual and not always need another person in your life. Then when lovely people come along it feels like all your Christmasses and birthdays rolled into one!!

I really do feel that this past few months I have enjoyed a life as a single person. Not that I have been doing anything wild – far from it! But it has been good to concentrate on myself for a while and not think of myself in relation to another person. I am enjoying that freedom and believe that I will have far better boundaries when I enter into my next relationship. After all, you have to live with ourself 24/7 so you might as well know you can do it well!

I am 46 years old and since the age of 15 I have been single for all of 2 months! That’s not me bragging, by the way – far from it!! I think it is about time that I spent some good quality time with myself for a change! There are things I would like to do that I have thought I couldn’t do becasue I spent that time with my ex (he is my ex since last night when I found the courage to finally end a 5 year relationship that I have known for ages wasn’t right). Now is the time to really spread my wings and see what I am capable of!
Scary and exciting at the same time!
Lots of love Anne xxxxx

embrace being single, its just that my arms are getting tired, so I’d like someone else to embrace me for awhile!!! :)