ask her out

Saw her kissing someone else this afternoon. With way too much enthusiasm.

Damn.

Edit: I’m not giving up! Some sweet young (not too young) lasses here? Preferably Brittish :P

Gah… j/k. But I’m on the lookout once more.

So, finally, she got better and was there today. I’m glad she’s back because, well, first, being this sick must not have been one of her more enjoyable experiences, and secondly, because I didn’t like it much either. Honestly, that’s put gently.

I asked her out for lunch today, and she kindly accepted, if only she didn’t have time today. We haven’t yet agreed on a date yet, but she’ll be around more regularly from now on I suppose. Friday, in any case, she’ll be there she said, so…

Well, I’m not ticking this off yet… for a couple of days, I hope.

This isn’t going as well as I had hoped. It’s not that I didn’t dare tell her, or that she refused or anything… I just haven’t had one damned chance yet to even speak to her. She hasn’t been around for over two weeks now, because she’s ill.

Okay, she was there once, at the day of her exam. We talked a bit (“How did it go? Oh great, you passed, I am so happy for you” kind of talk). However, she didn’t feel well and went home directly afterwards, so even had I wanted an excuse to back out, I didn’t need one.

I did send her and e-card a few days ago, wishing her well and all that. She hasn’t replied to that, though. Since she usually seems happy to see me (or is that me imagining?), I don’t think she’s trying to tell me something by not answering — but I don’t feel totally confident about that, either.

Meh. For her sake and mine, I hope she’s feeling better next week!

With one of the most important exams of my graduation coming up in less than a week, when am I supposed to ask her out!?

And, well… It’s not that I really can’t wait for another week (she has her exam the same week anyway, so it is very unlikely she has time to undertake anything), but I do have trouble concentrating on the work I have to do.

Why do things like these always come up at the most inconvenient of times?

so much as putting it on the back burner for a while. I’m getting to know this girl better and feel comfortable with her, and all of a sudden I don’t feel the need to ask her out—it’s good just developing our friendship.

Girls—They’re linked to my drinking problem. I feel as if the only way to get a girl is to have confidence. And to have confidence I drink. Now, there’s a girl that doesn’t like me first unlike my past two girlfriends. I want to ask her out on the date whatever the cost, in person, and not while drinking. But I just don’t know how. I’m completely different from her, some of my friends told me that I will fail, and that I should try another girl. But I want her…

I’ve decided to ask her out tomorrow, when I see her. I don’t know how she might take it, but I’m just going to go for it and to hell with the consequences! Otherwise, I’ll regret not doing it and never knowing.

Sadly, further from this as ever! I don’t really know how to ask her out—how to deal with the whole letting-her-know-I’m-gay thing. Should I just straight up and say, ‘I’m gay—and by the way, I fancy you’?? Even to me, that would come as a bit of a shock, I think.

How to let her know how I feel about her, but in a slightly more subtle way? Perhaps I should just let her in on the gay bit, and then leave it for quite a while before telling her the rest..

Any opinions on how I should go about it?!?

There’s this girl a school she’s really preety but i’m not the best looking guy around, I kind of feel intimidated by her even though she’s really nice. we’ve exchanged emails but I don’t think I know enough about her. what should I do?

not going to ask her out yet, as we don’t really know each other well enough..

but we are going swimming on thursday. hopefully our friendship will develop from there. Oh god, I do love her! in fact, it’s more like obsessed.. :D