ExtraHead#...sometimes I feel like I have to run away...#
Yes it’s bashfulness. New situations totally overwhelm me. So maybe I need:-
(i) to upskill myself
(ii) try some virtual socialising 3 years ago
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zinniada
It made me
happy! 
How I did it: There are some people who can keep any kind of person interested, my sister is one of those. I would look at her and feel jealous and always wanted to be like her - everyone likes her. She encouraged me and after she left for higher studies, i was the only one left behind and thought how bored i would be if the host of the party was so anti-social. I began by forcing myself not to have any moment of silence between me and my friend and slowly and slowly i got used to it. Now i don't need to force myself it just happens naturally and now i enjoy parties! Read how I did it… 2 years ago
bluebutton32
It made me
good
How I did it: It was a long process that just sort of happened. I think it was a lot of small steps, a lot of small situations that added up to me getting fed up with not feeling good in social situations. A big part of it was also that I realized that it is the types of social interactions I have the really affect my mood, so if I surround myself with positive people and in positive situations it helps to get over that fear or stress of hanging out with people. Read how I did it… 3 years ago
donthideIt was temporary
For someone who’s usually so social, I went thru a period of anti-social-ness. I think it’s ok every so often. I was dealing with the stress of coming off a deployment (coming home was more stressful than the overseas time I think!), uncertainty about the job, etc. etc. I just needed to think a lot and edit the friends list, etc. I’m still not out all the time like I was before…I just think I’m kinda growin up. A little, anyways 4 years ago
bluebutton32Untitled
I have fallen deeper an deeper into antisocialness. I think I am getting out of it. I’m realizing it and how awkward it makes me feel. It’s hard, though, because when I hang out with people, especially large groups of people I – well, first, I can think of nothing intelligent to contribute, and then I go home and feel empty and shitty about it. It makes me avoid these situations and people in general. I do just fine if it’s just my close friends hanging out (which happens increasingly rarely), or with one or two people. I am starting to feel like the only social interactions I feel comfortable in are really intense or too intimate to want to do all the time. But, I think I’m starting to kind of branch out also. I recently made this friend in one of my classes. In another class I even have a little group of people I always sit with and talk to, but I don’t think these relationships will extend beyond that class. But, the one friend, we have hung out a couple of times outside of class and we talk online. I think this is a good step for me. It makes new people less scary and more worth my time. It also gives me more options when my friends are hanging out with people I don’t like. But, that’s really not the way I should be thinking. But, for now it is. I don’t know. This is a terrible issue to have.. 4 years ago
bluebutton32Untitled
I went to my friends roommates birthday party the other night and then last night I went to dinner with some of the people from my hall last year. These were both very social things that I would normally not even consider participating in, but for some reason I did. I cannot say that I am particularly glad I did or that they were a really great time, but I did them, and I saw that they weren’t I guess. Which might be worth something.. I’m not sure. 4 years ago
dawsonxHello all
well being an addicted gameing freak that i am i have been hidden away in doors for about 1 solid year now and when freinds would vist i would continue gameing…how sad. any way i finnaly realised what was happening to me ansnapped out of the haze! to find i was 2 stone overweight and i now only had 3 real life freinds left.
now i have lost a stone through going the gym and am being more social and meeting new people go me! theres still a long way to go before i reach my goal. 5 years ago
Jx PxI have...
been going to The sports stop in Salem a bunch. I have even been visiting some friends… 5 years ago
Jx PxUntitled
I haven’t hung out with anyone besides family for a few weeks now. Girls hit on me when I go to get coffe or when I’m out with my family and I just ignore them. WTF is wrong with me? I just prefer the company of myself. My phone has over a hundred numbers in it. 5 years ago
asloversgogo jo!
Am succeeding slightly in this, though was put off briefly by the whole boyfriend thing which involved spending hour of every day available on our own, together. luckily that’s stopped now and i can continue having a life, like tonight, when me and my favourite girlies went out for quiet (but fun!) drinks to celebrate my 19th. Go jo, you’re getting there. 6 years ago
dismaedUntitled
definitely have this going on… i have very few close friends left in michigan [all have moved away] but it’s truly wonderful to spend time with the remaining ones. 6 years ago
dismaedUntitled
went out in the middle of the week! what a rebel!
and i’m throwing a party tomorrow, and going out of town to visit friends the weekend after…. hopefully i’ll accomplish that “have mind blowing sex” goal while away. 6 years ago
asloversgoUntitled
I am going to get myself a social life. It will not be hard; I have friends who would love me to go out more often. I will no longer lock myself away in room watching Family Guy. I will go out and get veh veh drunk like a normal student. 7 years ago
