My ex contacted me recently. I needed some time to focus, and didn’t respond. It was best that I didn’t. She was kind of rude, and asked me for a favor. I did the favor, and didn’t respond to her rudeness. Although I initially hated the distance between us, now I’m finding that we are actually better people when we don’t communicate with each other…well, at least I am a better person when I’m not speaking with her. I feel great about standing my ground. 23 months ago

I think my first step will be to write my ex a letter. We recently agreed not to contact each other, mostly due to my bad attitude, and I do not wish to go against her wishes, but I feel I should write a letter that lists some of the reasons I am better for having known her. This might be a bit of a feat, because there are also many many reasons why we were bad for each other…but I feel this list would help alleviate some of the negative feelings I have, and I think it would make her feel a bit better too. I’ll try it. 23 months ago