stop telling my brother what to do

I never really thought much of it. He complains about it sometimes. I always thought I was just trying to help him. I don’t mean like bossing around, I just try to nudge him to do new and interesting things with his life rather than certain other less than productive things. I found his 43 things tonight, and I can really see my influence in them. I sort of stood back and asked my self “what am I doing”. I guess his problems are his own and I should stick to my own. I just hope he isn’t making mistakes that I have already made.