stop telling lies

i have lied to many times to the one person who truly loves me i want to marry one day but if i keeep doing the same shit over &over again im going to lose her forever i dont want that at all i want to spend the rest of my life with her and only her and one day marry her i tell her i will change but i fear i will end up losing her. i dont want that i want to marry her thats what i would like. plz help me change

It’s part of my culture… to try not to hurt people’s feelings. Even if it wasn’t part of my culture, I still don’t like the idea of ruining someone’s day by telling them something they don’t want to hear. But at the same time, I do feel a sense of guilt whenever I tell a lie. So maybe I should try not to lie anymore.

It still depends on the situation though.

All of my life I’ve been telling lies, and now I can’t stop. I keep telling my friends that I’ve done stuff that I haven’t done, it’s impossible to stop!!!!!

I lied to the people that meant the most to me in this world. My mother and the person that I am in love with. I told one person one thing and the other person something totally different. Everyday I had to think about every word that came out of my mouth because I told a lie to cover up for a lie to cover up for another lie.

My mother still holds me at arms length. My love I don’t know. I will never be looked at the same way again. It’s hard knowing that something so small could destroy everything.

I lied because I didn’t have enough faith in the people around me loving me for who I am and not what I am and what I have. Now I don’t have anything. I have material things but I’ve lost my loved ones trust. That can make you feel hollow at times.

Pain is progress. I can now look at what I’ve done and never do it again.

PRAY FOR A CHANCE TO MAKE IT RIGHT!!!!

I admit i’m a liar, I honestly think I’ve been this way for a long time too, but it’s going to stop.

I lie about stupid, petty things and for no reason, it’s beyond ridiculous.

I have plenty of things that I want to change about myself this year but this is the first one, I think that if i continue to lie to myself and others, my friends and family are not going to trust me and eventually I won’t even trust myself.

I need to remind myself: If you want to implement change in your life the first thing you need to be is HONEST, to yourself first. To be honest about the fact you have a problem and to be HONEST about what it will take to change.

I promise myself to make 2009 a year that counts in shaping who I am.
To be honest and be strong.

yeah i am a lier!! good news is that I see I am not alone in this universe! bad things is that I tell lies for no good reason, and worst of all is that I think I ve even started to lie to myself! justifying some of the wrong things I do; e.g. telling lies!!
No I am not a bad person, as a matter of fact I am a kind hearted person who wants good for all the people (i really am), but this DAMN habit of lying has got to me from I dont know where and is really bothering me…god I sometimes tell lies without even getting any benefit out of it, its got like a second nature to me and I HATE IT…I WANNA STOP!!! I wanna be honest again, I don’t wanna tell lies even for good reasons anymore…Ironic thing is that sometimes I lie for good reasons like covering up some ones ass or not hurting someones feelings, but no matter what my intention was, it always come back to bite me!!
So i hate it, no damn lies, be straight with every body ….a (mean) friend of mine just told me that I am a dishonest person and I have to recheck my attitude, I ve really got insulted and although some of the things that she said was not true, but it got me thinking about this lying thing that could be source of most of my dishonesty problem…
FROM TODAY ON, I DON’T TELL LIES!!!

I just lost my boyfriend of almost 3 years and its becuase I lied to him about the stupidest things and I hate it. I hate myself for doing it, he found out that I was raped when I was 11 and I kept fighting and fighting him over it and finally told him what happened, thats NOT the only lie I’ve told him. We’ve broken up before over this shit and he’s given me chance after chance and now he says he doesn’t know what to do. I’d do ANY thing to change and get him and his trust back. I know I have this lying problem and I NEED HELP. What do I do?

I have been dating a guy for 4 years. BUT I have been lying chronically. I have been seeing another guy behind his back for over a year. finally, i dumped the 4 year guy for the new guy. now my 4 year guy has found a new girl and i want him back so bad. i know i dont deserve it, but i just NEED him in my life. the new guy treats me just great. but i just dont want him. I AM IN LOVE with my 4 year guy. I beg him to take me back and he just says maybe someday. How do i stop chronically telling lies?! It just just been a part of my life time after time and i can’t stop doing it. just last night we spoke and i told him two lies. they were minor-yes-but still LIES. I have hurt the LOVE of my LIFE for WAY to long and TO many times!!! I will do anything to get him back and I will NOT give up!! I have been being so selfish for the past 2 years, but now i am ready to settle down and stop partying just for HIM! I am ready to get married to him and live in a small town-even though i hate small towns-i will do it FOR HIM!!!!! and change my BAD habits!!!

Well here goes nothing.
This weeked my friend Peter of 7 years came down to vist with his girlfriend to florida. The reason for the visit was because I was about to purchase a wedding band for my boyfriend of 2 years and ask him to marry me. My BF was on a business trip. So saturday nignt Peter, his girl, another close friend of mine let’s say her name is Shelly went to a sports bar. We were all getting along great and i was talking about different ways I would ask my BF to marry me. I started to get nervous and thinking about if he would take it seriously how will our family take it and i had a few drink, which I have not drank in years. I was the only one with the car and i didnt want to drive so Shelly drove Peter and his girl to there hotel then drove to her house. I wound up spending the night at Shelly’s house. (Now the thing about Shelly is that I used to have a thing for Shelly a few years ago. My BF knows, i was honest about that. After time Shelly and i became friends and my BF didnt mind. I babysit Shelly’s daughter and he know when we hangout. He never minded) now saturday night my BF called a few times but i didnt know because i was feeling a little nice. I only caught one call. I spoke to my BF in the bathroom Shelly and the baby were sleeping. I told him i missed his calls cause i was sleeping and that was a lie it was because i was feeling nice he asked where i was because the phone was echoing and i said that i was home. Now why did i say that. Half way through saying that i knew i was lying but i still went with it. The next day he called me and i was already out and he called and he asked me if i had anything to tell him. I said no.He asked me a second time where i slept i still said home.I already know that i am caught but i keep at it. he then told me that he knew that i wasnt home because our roommate was talking to him online in the livingroom like 2 mintues prior to when he called me the previous night. I finally told him that i was at Shelly’s and he flipped out. He stated that a person lies it means they are hiding something that they know they did wrong. He thought something happened b/w me and her, which nothing happened. he then questioned the entire weekend and every move i made. i told him it was because i wanted to aviod the Shelly conversation. which is only partially true. The reason for the whole this was because i was ashamed that i drank to the point that i couldnt drive. If we argued about something that I know didnt happen like me sleeping with Shelly he would be disappointed at the truth that i got drunk. Because i thought that once he found out i drank he would as me why and i just couldnt tell him that i was nervous that i was going to ask him to marry me in a few weeks. Now he is livid and the fact that i lied and trust me it is his biggest pet peve and it is my biggest flaw. I love my Bf Very much though now an engagement is out of the question. I replayed all our arguements in my head which is not alot but when it happen they were bad. And they all stemmed from one thing, I lied about something. even when he gives me the hint that he knows which is just dumb. I need help

Sometimes I lie, sometimes I just don’t tell the whole truth. Even to myself.