My safe choice is my boyfriend because even though I don’t want to disappoint him and I want him to be proud of me, I feel a little too loved unconditionally, lol. Now if I asked my father to keep tabs on a particular goal of mine, then I’d be unstoppable! I already feel judged by him so the last thing I’d want is for me to have to admit that I did not stick to my goal for the day. Then I’d have to subject myself to his advice, lol. As effective as this would be I am definitely not brave enough for that yet! 21 months ago

I think that for me, accountability is absolutely necessary in the accomplishment of any of my goals. Almost anything I have ever accomplished has been after asking someone to keep tabs on me. I wish I could just make a commitment to myself and keep it- but I am just not there yet. Right now, I need someone checking in on me to see if I am keeping to my commitments. 43things definitely helps but nothing can replace facing someone or hearing their voice and having to give an account of my progress! 21 months ago