have friends

i want to get friends too… but i’m so busy all the time working on my PC.. so i guess i should better get cyber-friends…
anyway… i hope to meet some people anytime soon… =)

This is the only thing that i have plenty of it, but so sad to say non of them is my really best friend.
All my friends are just seasonly. like when i was at the college I had lots of friends, but when i graduated all of them left me.
Most of ppl around me ;like to use me, thats why I’m not able to trust anyone to be my best friend.

I don’t know what to do or where I have to go to have friends, I feel so lonly.

I am at a totally different place to where I was when I set this goal. When I set it I was at a place (where I’ve been many times before) hardly anyone seemed to contact me, a dry spot. Sometimes I wondered if this would be it. Me alone in life. I just yearned for some regular contact with someone.

Now I have met new people through work and a class that I signed up for. Good people from the past are also reconnnecting with me. The only thing is, true loneliness never seems to go away once these people are gone. Once we go our separate ways on the street or hang up the phone. It’s like they top me up and make me feel happy whilst I am around them but after they are long gone I feel alone again, which sugggests that the loneliness is within me and I need to perhaps nurture myself and spend more QUALITY time alone doing things that enrich me opposed to perpetuating my idleness. Reading a book, writing a story, researching things that will help me progress etc.

I cannot go back and reconnect with those from my past. My life is so different now, but I need to find a way to relate to others and establish healthy relationships.

I’m shy. It’s hard for me to meet new people. I hate it.

I feel so lonely.. I really do.
My best best friend, faarrrr away! I know she is there for me, and I know that she’ll always be there for me! but I really need someone here to just hang out and have good time! I feel like I am missing out on things! I am 21 years old, and Most of my Fridays I spend them at home! and it just bothers me..
I am so bored with my self! and it just makes me so depress!!
I am not asking for a huge group of friends!! I just want two friends that I can rely on, I don’t want acquantancies!! I want friends!!!

I feel LIKE such a looser, honestly.. and I know this affects my self esteem, and to tell you the true, My confidence is really low right now!

i recently had a huge fight with my group of friends, ALL of my friends. and its not just a “oh we hate eachother today and love eachother tomorrow” thing. we will never be friends again. so now i have no friends which really sucks when i see my sister hanging out with her friends everyday while i sit home alone.
i wanna have friends that i can just hang out with and have fun with, without all the backstabbing and drama of my old group of “friends”

I’m here
:)

This one’s hard. I have no trouble meeting new people and getting on with them but it’s making them stick thats the problem. Well the ones I want to stick anyway. I always seem to attract scatty, disorganised, socially unavailable people. Maybe I am scatty, disorganised and socially unavailable myself which is why I am attracting them? I may be scatty and disorganised at the best of times but I wouldnt call myself socially unavailable and do make time for those already in my life as I would for potential friends, so it doesnt add up that I make time for people but the people I attract dont have time for me.

I have occassional social buddies but nobody apart from my ex that I could call a REAL bonified- there for me at all times- sincere FRIEND. Only GOD.

Hmm I need to really look at this one. Nonetheless I am enjoying my own company as I always have done and do believe that everthing happens for a reason in it’s own season. God obviously doesnt want loads of people around me at this point in my life and I must accept this. Maybe I should take my mums advice and decorate my room, turning it into a little haven where I want to be.