Being myself.
2 weeks ago
I just gotta stop living “in my head”! Just not care so much what others think and forget about self-criticism. :) easier said than done though…
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How to always be myself
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 "long experience full of different feelings"
How I did it: when I was a little girl, maybe as 4 yrs old, I have realized that I would do most of things alone, so maybe from then on, subconsciously I began to build my inside thoughts, I began to learn independant. My parents didn't say too much to us about our life or thinking or study, they just let us live like we are, many thanks to them. With time pass by, I know that I have to be myself, to stand by myself, to live for myself, slowly, I care about others' judge less, and because my parents couldn't tell me much about how to deal with new things, they don't have much experience of communication, working with many people.... I have to control everything and get a decision by myself, so with experience more, think more to find who I am, what I want to do, then I am always be myself. Lessons & tips: Everyone can be themselves as long as they try. Resources: myself
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How I did it: there's no alternative to being yourself. if you pretend to be different in public, deep down, you're still yourself. why not be yourself with everyone as you are in private? people won't understand -- some may say that you're being contradictory sometimes but that's human nature. it's dynamic and it changes. be genuine in your actions and to your feelings without regards of what others will say. Read how I did it…
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1 month ago
Wow! I can’t believe this takes some people 12 years to complete! HAHAHAH LOL!
Dude, I could do this ever since I was a toddler!
superlove101123 is looking at the moon, the stars, and the passing clouds
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8 months ago
i think that being yourself is when you have
the most succes and are the happiest. i need to remember tyat sometimes because i loose myself to all of the random things happening in my life. i know im only 14 but isnt it better to figure things out sooner nstead of leaving it when your completly lost? well i think yes! =)
Keep True to YOURSELF!!
arcticeisbaer is getting her homework done..
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13 months ago
i never change my behaviour on purpose and i really don’t like people who do. but sometimes i catch myself changing unintentionally when talking to someone i think more intelligent, cool, humourous (this is the worst! i’m not doing good jokes when i try to concentrate on it…)
so.. i should work on that.
yunzi is learning German
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18 months ago
The landlord needs the house due to their break with son and daughter-in-law, they have to live separately.so we have to move out, and I have to wait 2-3 months to get my omn place, and it is hard to find a place to live in just for several months. Then I consulted with my mom’s brother, and luckily I can move in, and now I share the room with my grandma.
And this weekend I carried all the things to the new place, only with my bike, so many things, they took me 11 times from the old place to the new one.
From this, I found myself so independent, although I felt very very tired, I knew that I become strong.
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22 months ago
I want to be myself 100% all the time. I have to admit i’m still finding myself, but during this process i dont want to become someone i’m not because of someone elses influence. So from now on I’m going to be true to my heart.
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22 months ago
i ve had lots of life dissapointment, so i feel the best way to live up to expectation in life is to be yourself and thats what am doing.
yunzi is learning German
Run your own race, Free to be...You and me
23 months ago
I heard a story: A thoroughbred always wears blinders on the face during the race, because he can listen to others but couldn’t see others, then he can run directly to the destination without caring about anyting around.
Maybe sometimes we need blinders. I think everyone wants to be free to be yourself, but we will be affected more or less. But if we really want to do something, We can. We can wear blinders. The life is ours, we needn’t live for others, even for the parents or for your own kids, they have their own life styles. And they couldn’t live for you when you are in trouble or in happiness, what they can do for you is only to share with you, happiness or sadness.
So in the long life road, just run your own race, Free to be, you and me.
yunzi is learning German
this is a real me
2 years ago
More and more friends told me that I am thinner than before. of course, it is a good news for any girls who want to be beautiful. And I told them I eat much, sleep more, get much healthier, and I get thinner. One of my cousin said maybe that is a real you, you should be like that. I completely agree with her. All of these are due to my happy mood when I catch a job that I like.This is a real me. Happy,healthy,confident Cloudie.
yunzi is learning German
a big step
2 years ago
always be myself, it is not so difficult for me.
when i feel sad or unhappy with something, i can change this mood to be happy with my way.
i made this goal just want to check whether i can do it all the time, then if i can do it always, that can be a big step, then i can succeed.
