Accept it-Change it-or forget it.

Instead of dwelling on past Christmases and pining for the “good old days” of the past, I tried to focus on the present.
It’s hard because several members of my family have died and I do miss them this time of year and I also miss my ex-husband. We’ve been apart 16 years and he was also so excited about Christmas. Anyway, the past is the past, right?

I have a bad habit of the shoulda, coulda, woulda’s. It has made my life miserable at times, especially when it involves past relationships.
Everything is all so clear in hindsight. “If I just knew then what I know now” is a common complaint of mine.
I have to let things go and I’m certainly going to work on it.

Here is what helped me , I accepted that there are shitty people in the world, I accept that some days I am going to feel like complete shit. I accept, that there are going to be days/times/ moments where all I want to do is plays stills because their lives, I can have it my ways no matter what. I accept that there are things about me that i want to change.I accept that my life is in my hand, and that everyday is another chance to trun it all around I going to change the way I see the world, I’m going to change my give up attitude, I’m going to change, my temper, because it really does get the best of me . I’m going to forget all the nay sayer that don’t believe in me, because in the end they aren’t gonna matter to me

There has been loads of things that i have done in the past (relationship or academic) i just can’t seam to let go… It seams really dumb as so many people seam to do it, but i just don’t know how!
All i ever seam to want to do is run away (holiday or go back to my hometown) and if i don’t have the money to do these things it makes me worse and i feel more down! moan over…

I waste so much time worrying about things I cant change, ussually things that have already happened, and thinking how I should/could have done them differently, what I should have said… what a waste of thinking/stressing time… draw a line and move on!

100%! Now I can go ahead, and totally forget it! But I learned from ot to be more careful and responsible.
So I can mark it as done.

And I will be in all April. But fortunately is going well, so I feel a little relieved. :)

I have to learn to get over things that I can’t do anything about. I try and try to find ways to change people’s minds, and it just doesn’t work….Gotta stop!

i think i can sucessfuly count this as done even though it took awhile till i was completely over it it happened eventually just as i suspected!

It really is an over arching philosophy tho – its something that one needs to keep in mind at all times, which is hard at first, but is now becoming a habit.

Well worth It!!