fix my relationship

I don’t know if I can keep doing this anymore. I’m trying so hard to change and be a better girlfriend for my boyfriend, but he doesn’t see how hard it is for me. I have to do things I’ve never done for anyone else and I’m constantly sitting in my room crying because of how unhappy I am at the moment. If I’m having trouble changing don’t you think it’s the least he can do to do one small favor that will make it easier for me to change? Is that so much to ask?....I guess it is for him….He can’t see that I’m willing to be unhappy for him. I’m putting him before myself this time, and he doesn’t see it. I don’t know what to do anymore….......

Us want us to be together and in love. In a place were we both can be happy and grow.

I’ve tried everything I can think of, and trust me, i try HARD. But he told me he just wants me to relax. The problem with that is, if I relax and do things like he does, our relationship goes no where. I’m always initiating any form of affection. But I took his advice, and I relaxed. and what happened? just what i had expected, nothing. He doesn’t try any harder… now it just feels like a FRIENDship, rather than a RELATIONship. I just don’t know where to go from here, all the talking to him about it goes NO WHERE, it just leads back into what I need to do as a girlfriend… but I really don’t think I can put any more of myself into this if he isn’t going to try too. I need help.

Please Please Please help!!!!!!
im not gonna tell u my age but im really young, i really need your help before school tomorrow

I have a boyfriend, he told me he is in love with me,
but im the type of girl that doesn’t like to be tied up, like in a relationship,
what do i do?
I DON’T really like him, but he is starting to open up to me, he has never opened up to anybody…
please help, im desperate!!!!!

i cannot trustmy boyfriend. i feel like he is always going to hurt me and i have this uncontrollable urge to stop him from doing anything in his life so that he cant hurt me by cheating or something.

how do i trust him and why am i like this.

i am going to ruin us if i dont fix my issues.

i want to marry this man.

When I added this to my list things were looking down. 3 years in the relationship, two of them long distance. And then I picked up and went abroad for the summer leaving issues unresolved and making our 250 miles apart 3000 miles. However after a rocky start we starting understanding the adage “absence makes the heart grow fonder” and began appreciating each other more, and realizing how insignificant our fights were in the long run. I returned back to the states and it has been almost a month of bliss. I don’t think I’m ready to call the relationship ‘fixed’ just yet, but we’re certainly getting there and I couldn’t be happier about it.

My bf and I have been dating for two years. The only problem is when he gets upset, he avoids things all together or when I get upset he just says we will talk about it later and hug me just so i’m not bothered and then we NEVER talk about it. It’s so annoying cause if I’m going to be in a relationship I’d like to at least know what’s going on. I’m not even talking about arguing. I’m talking about being calm and sitting down and sharing what you have to say. Simple. I’m not a hard person at all. My bf makes it more complex than it needs to be. It’s always all over the place and then he’ll just freak out and after that I’m left in disbelief and not knowing what I am to do. I always just have to wait for him to come to me and to me, that’s not fair at all. I’ve done nothing but been there for him. All his friends end up letting him down and out of place, but I have always been consistent in being there for him and I feel I’m not getting back in return what I’ve been doing all along. When he left home and he’d call me at 3 or 4 in the morning to come see him and be there with him, I got out of bed and left in an instant without thinking twice. I’ve always been there 110%. I’m starting to feel that my goodness in this relationship is now becoming over worked. I feel abandoned and confused by his actions. I don’t smother him either. I give him the space he needs. Also when he gets mad he says some realllly hurtful things. Things that I could never imagine saying to anybody. I’m troubled in all of this and it would be great to get some replys from both men and women. Feel free to tell me what you feel.

There’s nothing else I can do. I tried everything. Talking, ignoring, crying… When I say how I feel, he doesn’t care at all. He stopped calling me. We are spending three times less time together than before. I tried with compromises, with letting him win… I’m desperate. I think he is not in love with me anymore. Still, he’s lying about it… I’m tired. It’s his turn.

I want to either fix my current relationship, or realise that it’s not going anywhere and just give up. Sometimes it’s OK to realise that things just aren’t working out, even if it took 2 years.