judy_mai is looking forward to the holidays!
Sometimes I feel like I can’t do anything right, that the critic in my head just won’t shut up! I want to feel at peace with my life and not worry about living up to some abstract ideal that, deep down, I don’t even care about.
I’m going to live for the moment and accept my life exactly for what it is, having faith that God doesn’t make mistakes so I shouldn’t judge myself as not being good enough. My goal is to accept myself as I am, and not be so harsh on myself :)
Oct 15, 2008, 11:22AM PDT | 0 comments
amylou29 is relaxing while the laundry is going
I should stop judging every thing I do… I need to stop thinking and start “being” more!
It certainly would help me relax.
To stop taking myself so seriously.
Sep 26, 2008, 10:16PM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments
i suddenly realise i keep judging myself. especially when i start a new project, when i make decisions, when i try to be cool but can´t..so, now i´m on the way to be a bit nicer to myself.. :)
May 15, 2008, 12:35PM PDT | 0 comments
I am extremely critical of myself and often have a hard time believing that I am good enough at anything. I feel that I’m a good mom to my girls, but that beyond that, I can’t think of other things I would list as talents or successes. I want to stop judging myself and start seeing the positives I have to offer.
May 10, 2008, 04:11PM PDT | 0 comments
Imperfections
21 months ago
Not that I’m confusing them with flaws or vices in character, but imperfections – the glitches that is found in every single person on this planet. I don’t think I find them so repulsive anymore; I think I quite like them. Somehow they make me feel so much more human. Nobody’s perfect!
Feb 16, 2008, 06:31AM PST | 2 cheers | 0 comments
I’m going (to try, anyway) to stop judging myself so damned harshly. I think I’ve got to give myself a chance just like I do with others. I realise I’m human, but sometimes I find my own personal flaws just so repulsive. It’s terrible now I think about it. I don’t want to live this way anyway.
I don’t mean to silence that voice in my head completely. After all, it’s important to listen to it once in a while so I can keep my feet on the ground and not get carried away. Humility’s important, but self-respect and liking yourself for you is even more so.
Dec 01, 2007, 03:21PM PST | 0 comments
Although this is something I know I will constantly have to renew in my mind – I have learned how to stop taking out all my imperfections on myself and begin to accept them - and since i am so much more comfortable with myself and i have noticed that the people around me are more comfortable too - tis fabulous
Jul 28, 2006, 02:17PM PDT | 2 cheers | 0 comments
This is such a great goal – i just saw it on someone’s page and knew it was something i need to work on – - lately i have realized that i have a hard time being real and vunerable with the people around me because i am afraid they are going to dislike me when they see that i am not perfect —so for years i have put up this fake persona of perfection but behind that i nitpick and tear myself apart for every little thing i did wrong - i guess really i wasnt only wearin the mask for others – i was wearing for me too - i thought i wasnt allowed to mess up -—well guess what I AM HUMAN and i AM NOT PERFECT!! —-i can live this --—
Mar 28, 2006, 11:14PM PST | 1 cheer | 0 comments