be happy single

I’m tired of people trying to make me feel like i’m incomplete or less of a person because i don’t have a boyfriend. Having a partner does not complete someone, and i don’t think i’d even be happy having a boyfriend until i first learn how to be comfortable going solo, developing myself into an independant woman and growing into a better person for the guy that really deserves me.

nope! still struggling – no better whatsoever….. just started seeing a cpn I have been waiting ages to see…maybe this will help?

I am now nearly 30 and have spent most if my life in long term relationships.

14 – 15 1yr
16 – 18 18 months
18 – 21 3yr
21 – 22 8 months
22 – 25 4 years
25 – 29 3 yrs

Lucky some would say? And yes – in terms of experience it has been invaluable. But – now I just don’t know how to survive on my own! I think about my next potential partner all the time – always looking, fantasizing. I am a v creative person and actually find this serching energy a great catalyst for producing writings, music and art. But of course it has it’s bad sides too. I have never spent enough energy on myself. I could have done so well if I hadn’t given so much to the relationships I have been in. But now I’m getting older I want kids and a family – more long term stuff…arrr crap!
Ah well – been single for 3 months since the last one, lets see how long I can go! I really need to snap out of thinking about guys….. HELP!