have more girlfriends

So I have few girlfriend’s right, but they don’t count because I’m either related to them or they have been my friend forever.
I want to make new one’s, but I have no clue how to. I have 6 brother’s and no sister’s. So that didn’t help. It just that I don’t know how to connect with them. What the hell do you say to them? I mean you can’t flirt with them or make fun of them like your guy friend’s. IDK what do you think?

I’ve always connected better with guys. I blame this on the fact that I grew up with two brothers, instead of sisters. I was something of a tomboy when I was a little kid and I guess after I shed my dirty t-shirts and grass stained knees for dresses and makeup, I still kept the mentality that girls were drama fueled and catty. Now that I’m in my 20’s and have moved away from my hometown, I realize how important having girlfriends is. From my perch at work, I watch as gaggles of women head to lunch. I can’t help but be a little jealous. I wish I had a nice tight circle of female friends to laugh and talk with, shop with and get advice from. Because sometimes, dudes just don’t understand what it’s like to be a girl and you can only fake interest in football for so long.

Maintaining friendships was easy. In the past couple of years I have grown apart from a lot of old friends, and re-evaluated frienships that were superficial or draining or manipulative. I feel like I’ve gotten rid of a lot of negativity in my life, but it’s also caused me to value true friendship and understand how important real girlfriends are. I hope to make new friendships with women who have high goals and dreams, who are motivated and loyal. Who are supportive rather than competetive, who are strong and confident in themselves.

Yeah I am not trying to be desperate or anything. I ‘ve met a few new people lately(online, does that count??) I am tad happier with many areas including this one.
I’ve been a little unfun & mopey & not happy with my life; not good. Maybe to be more alert of how I act around some my friends & new aquaintances….