Choosing to.
1 month ago
Now, that I am married I do realize that loving him is a choice.
The best choice I can ever make aside from my salvation.
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How to be in love
It made me
Smile urges!
 "Before you love, you have to let go; let go of trust issues, past relationships and insecurity. And most importantly you have to let them in."
How I did it: You can't look for love, whatever happens will happen and fall into place. I met my girlfriend July 2008 and felt an instant physical attraction, and when we started officially talking in October we both felt the compatability. Lessons & tips: You have to try even though you think things might not work out or if you are too timid, and things have to remain fresh and new everytime you talk to your lover.
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I am so in love.
4 months ago
I am so in love with an incredible man. He is sweet and giving and loves me too. We have looked at engagement rings, and i am hoping for the question sometime in the future, because i know we were meant for one another.
I think i can mark this as being accomplished.
cliche i know , but honest
4 months ago
An ex finance’ , a ring , and her new boyfriend . The thought of it still burns . And the by product of it I’m still hurting a lot , and it’s been a long time . six months now . i still find myself thinking about her , longing for her , and playing sad songs on my guitar . Part of me believes that this was Karma and all of the things i’ve done ( not necessarily to her ) but in general have caught up to me . My punishment for all eternity is to suffer knowing what might have been . This goal doesnt seem honest because i’m in love , the one that i’m in love with is in love with someone else . i’ll never speak to her again for what shes done but Gods since of humor won’t allow me to move on. So the true goal would be to repair all the damage done to my view of her and hers alike and try to be happy with someone else.
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Be in Love
5 months ago
The unachievable goal? Why set a goal you don’t expect to achieve? Because hope is all we have.
Be in love
5 months ago
i want to be in love and live a happy life with my lover, i would love them to be kind and gental i have been in love and i still think iam , i love him so i must be…. :)
So here comes the sun.
5 months ago
Some of that light I couldnt see is now flickering in.
I met a guy..
younger..as usual..They always tend to be younger than me.
But this time only a year and a half..not bad at all.
Hes made every boy ive ever liked..a BOY.
He makes me smile and feel like theres a reason to wake up
He brings out the best in me and every time I see his face, smile, text, anything..it makes any day brilliant!
I could, No I can..I can see myself falling so in love with him that I would never have to breathe again.
We havent expressed our feelings to eachother just yet but I can tell how they are.
Equal.
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Love is hard work
5 months ago
Piggy and I had been arguing in the past few weeks. It kills the love. He has a problem with communicating. He seems to be at a loss for words that is why he resorts to anger.
I even told him that he has to see a psychiatrist because he has a lot of unresolved childhood issues. He is insecure.
I will try to be more more patient with him. I still love him.
LOVE
6 months ago
i know how it feels . . . . .
it fells like you are lost forever in his eyes . . .
those eyes . . .
nothing is imporant but him . . .
In progress
6 months ago
Staying focused,trusting and forward thinking. Keeping our lines of communication open, doing whatever possible to make the long distance a non-issue.
Working on relocating…
...Scary!
But I follow my heart
Oh the lack of love.
6 months ago
I was in love once.
Not true love but a form of love itself.
Things went wrong in our relationship and so I ended it.
2 years it seemed went down the drain and looking back I honestly dont know why I wasted my time. Good memories. but I could of lived without it.
I want to find love, I want to fall so deeply in it that my head continuelly spins.
All of my friends are engaged, dating, etc. I simply..am not.
I recently though,have been getting asked on dates like crazy, but i barely know these people or even met them..its awkward for me.
One guy though, I met is a total sweetheart, I do like him. BUT hes nearly 3 years younger than me…Im 19 and although that still seems young, I have always hoped I would have someone to spend my time with by now. But a 16 year old!? That seems too young. I barely thought he was younger than 19 when we first met, hes 6’2” and more mature than any 19 year old I could meet. Thats whats allowing my heart to not feel weird about liking him.
He even said he felt it was a small issue but once we offically met, age ment nothing to him.
I guess I can see what will happen there but..love..that doesnt seem real in this case. I dont know, my head is so burried under the ground I cant see any light shimmering towards me.
Any advice?
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“There is this guy i have a "crush" on and i think he has a girlfriend,i dont want to spoil their relationship but at the same time i cant stop thinking abt him,its crazy....Should i tell him how i feel abt him?”
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