wow.. i just wrote a long ass post about this and it got deleted…
that really sucks…
hmmm let me try again… i guess…
i was saying before that i wanted to look into the reasons why porn gets me off…
when you think about it, porn is strange…
take a picture of a naked woman… usually the pictures is manipulating you to think a certain way… photography has so many ‘tricks’... like airbrushing, or lighting, or close ups… all these things are used to cover reality…
also photos takes an essential part of sexuality… first… it takes you out of the factor…. i can’t react to this person… i can’t flirt with them… i can’t tease them… i can’t hold them in my arms… i can make love to them… i can’t fuck them…
also it takes them out of the factor… they might as well be dead cause they are just a picture… i can’t see them breathing… i can hear the noises they make… i can’t hear them talk dirty to me… i can’t hear them say “i love you”…. they are dead…
so what is the point? if they are as good as dead to me then why am i getting off on them?
all the good things about sex is sacrificed with porn… man… to feel a girls goose bumps as you run your hand over their stomachs is priceless…
ok ok… i know that i don’t get sex all the time.. and i need to release… but i can’t just go up to any woman and say “lets fuck”… i’m too shy to be like that and truthfully i worry too much about STDs and AIDS…
so… masturbation is perfect…it helps with sexual frustration… it helps me go to sleep…. ummm wait… i think there is a list somewhere online
1. Because masturbation is immensely pleasurable, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun.
2. Because masturbation proclaims that sex is good in, by, and for itself.
3. Because masturbation makes you a better lover.
4. Because you can have more sex more often.
5. Because sexual pleasure is each person's birthright.
6. Because masturbation is the ultimate safe sex.
7. Because masturbation is a joyous expression of self love.
8. Because masturbation offers numerous health benefits including menstrual cramp relief, stress reduction, endorphin release, stronger pelvic muscles, reduction of prostate gland infection for men and resistance to yeast overgrowths for women.
9. Because masturbation is an excellent cardiovascular workout.
10. Because each person is their own best lover.
11. Because masturbation with a partner can be educational and hot
12. Because masturbation increases sexual awareness.
ok… so… i need to ask myself… how do i get off on my own healthy imagination and not porn…
I’ll write about this over the next few days
