I went through lot of agony to get over my friend moving on with her life. As we parted ways on a bitter note, I was left feeling miserable and her leaving our place and moving out felt like a close friend abandoning me. I was unable to absorb how come she is happy and I’m not. I wasted months over it.
Recently when we had to communicate regarding some bills, her rude and defensive attitude put me off. It finally broke that dam I was holding in my heart. I no longer think it was only my responsibility to make a relationship work. Secondly, her complete lack of any regard for our good moments in the past made me realise I am giving her undue importance by feeling so awful about the split. It is tough to accept but am trying to come to terms that sometimes things are not meant to be and not everybody would be emotionally invested in a relationship. I am going to move on and not let her make me sad any more.
God be with all of us. 5 months ago