Since I started to gain weight my confidence has gone way down and as I stopped liking what I saw in the middle I stopped thinking it was worth making the effort as it wouldn’t make much difference anyways. So I stopped plucking my eyebrows, doing my hair and makeup and caring what I wear but with that my confidence has just dropped any further. This has also impacted on my sex drive and while my boyfriend is quite understanding when we do have sex all I can think about is how bad I look so just cant enjoy it. I think that if I start trying to make an effort again then hopefully this will start making me feel better. Fingers crossed. Will start by doing my toenails tomorrow. 18 months ago
How I did it: It's not about looking like a movie star all the time, it's simply looking YOUR very best and according to the situation. You don't have the obligation to reach the standards or please somebody else but you. And I can honestly say that if you feel confident, people around you will at least respect you, even if they don't like the way you look like.