But...
4 years ago
...how?
How I did it: i have always had a great relationship with my mom. through our conversations, which my perspective always was a form of rejection of dominance and submission, she has come to see my perspective and has applied this to her goals, her relationship, and i am very happy to think that i might have played a part in that.
Lessons & tips: this vicious circle isn't easily broken. it takes a very long time for people to unravel and reveal to themselves how they are bound to these systems of thought.
Resources: long talks and reason with compassion