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How to forget him
It made me
alive....again
 "It made me not so gullible and a little bit stronger"
How I did it: This was the hardest thing to do in my entire life. I loved my husband. Even though we were both only 18 I truly loved him. Through our whole relationship, he was abusive, mentally and physically, only I didn't see it because my mind was so clouded by his constant "affections and declarations of love". He had me so brainwashed I turned my back on my family, God, and myself. But one day after I couldn't cover up the black eye, I left. It's been one year. After such a long time of hurt and sorrow, I stopped and thought of myself. I'm in school, I have a great job, and I realized, I am someone. I looked in the mirror and really looked and who I saw was a new woman. One who matters. And from now on I know in my heart its going to be ok because I deserve so much better. And its coming :) Lessons & tips: A lesson to all of you girls out there: just because someone texts or calls you a thousand times a day just to say he loves you, doesn't make it true. These are characteristic signs of controlling partners. Their real reason is to check where you are and what you are doing. Also to hear from you how much you love them so they are able to confirm that you are their property. There is such a thing as someone to protect and love you, and you can express your love right back. just watch out for those obsessive signs. Resources: My church, family, and friends were my most valuable resources for help.
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legs11 doesn't have the money to work toward hardly any of her goals!
How I did it: I did it... and boy did I really embarrass myself in the process, the usual; drunk dialing, soppy messages and what not and really regret it. But I'm not so much bothered what he thinks anymore, I've grown up and moved on. And even if he does think badly of me, I don't think so highly of him either! ;)I deleted all the nice 'I love you' texts. That's a tough one! Every time I felt upset I used to read those texts and get more upset. So I … Read how I did it…
taylor pretty much rocks
How I did it: it just takes time. i knew this and i just surrounded myself with friends and family and drowned myself in work and eventually i was crying less, and then i was laughing again, and then i would realize that a whole day had gone by and i hadn't thought of him. eventually the painful memories just became stories, and the three years we spent together became stepping stones to where i am today. it just takes time. Read how I did it…
writer4christ05 should be in bed.
How I did it: Well ... he got a girlfriend. Plus, I discovered I was only attracted to him physically, and he wouldn't make a good husband for me. I started comparing him to the man I wanted to marry, and, though I know I won't marry the man of my dreams, he didn't size up at all! Read how I did it…
I need this…. is amaizing that I have to pay even the hotels if I wanna spend some time with him. he’s a great guy but i think he still been a “child”...we work at th same place, different office but at the same company and is awfull..painfull…help.. I had gain 30 pounds because im always depress.
CheatingSheila is wading through the muck
And then I started dating a new guy about 2 months ago. Just this past weekend the new guy started being distant. I think I am getting the old heave-ho. Is this a pattern? How do you go on?
He broke my heart completely. Things were always great between us. No real signs of strain. We’d fight every once in awhile, but never went to bed angry. We decided we were going to get married, and no sooner than that happened, I ended up in a bad spot and we ended up moving in together, and just weeks later found out I was pregnant. I was ecstatic. The boy of my dreams…the boy who upon the first meeting I just knew, and I was within reach of everything I ever wanted in my life. Then, one day, still don’t know…he found me passed out 7 months pregnant on the bathroom floor. The baby died, and I almost did too. As if dealing with that wasn’t hard enough, he decided to call it quits. Apparently he can’t get over being mad at me for all that happened. Even went as far as getting a vasectomy so he’d never have to deal again. He claimed that I deserved better and he needed to be alone and single for awhile to get himself healthy again. I freaked out, went to stay with my mom for a few days to just wrap my head around it all. In those days, he packed up all my crap and had his friend move in. Then, if that wasn’t staggering enough, he then told me that while he loved me more than I could ever possibly imagine…he was never in love with me. But he had fallen in love with this other chick, who just a week prior he was complaining needed to be committed to a mental asylum. But I shouldn’t worry because she treats him like shit, he says. I shouldn’t worry? I shouldn’t be hurt???? After well over a year of us being together, planning a wedding, and working on starting a family!!! Then he gets mad because I’m upset!! The terrible thing is, I still know in my heart that he is my soulmate. I hate it. I need to forget him and move on. Maybe someday he can work his shit out and I can forgive…but not now.
I think we should all boycott boys and turn lesbian because all boys suck fat dicks and I hate them. Oh and if any of yall read my previous message and were wondering, he and my friend are dating now. They talked for like 2 weeks. We had a thing for like THREE YEARS, but he “didn’t want a girlfriend,” and God forbid I be at all upset about it. Wow I must be super lame or something…
CheatingSheila is wading through the muck
You look so good. I should just stop.
mixdgrl655 is in bed
5 years. he’s an ass. his ex is still around. he messed up my credit. he freaks out if i don’t answer his calls. we had NO TRUST. BUT he did my laundry, cooked for me, cuddled with me, gave me the remote, hung out with me all the time…but it’s over. he’s a jerk and i deserve better.
We never officially dated, but it was definitely something. for like 2 years!! And I really liked him…But guess what? Now he’s trying to get with one of my friends!! He didn’t even have the decency to let me know we were no longer anything, I guess since we weren’t “dating.” You know what’s even worse? My other friends are encouraging her to get with him! Wow…some friends. I mean what the hell am I supposed to say? Yeah, yall would be so cute?! I just don’t get it. I wish I could hate him but he still treats me as a friend and jokes around with me and I can’t avoid his presence. So any advice? I’d like to find someone new, but its a small town with very few options…ugh. I need a vacation.
It feels painful and I know I can do this. I need get my problems solved first.
CheatingSheila is wading through the muck
The SOB is on a website where he volunteers to impregnate women. Horrifying. I gave you my body. Shame on you. Shame on me. I hope you go to he** you mof.
Spellbound_Princess is content but concerned...
While I do think I’ve got used to the fact that he doesn’t care and we’ll probably never run into each other again in life- I cannot make myself forget that he exists and is living and having fun hopefully….....
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katiemurray asks,
“Anyone got advice for moving on??? Apart from finding someone else!”
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brahma wants to Learn astronomy
whiten my teeth
paint a self portrait
exercise regularly
Finish Anna Karenina
finish high school
S a r a h wants to Read one book a month
learn reiki
Finish my website
bathe in a waterfall
streak
meet alicia simmons
Host a dinner party
lose 50 pounds
visit all 50 states
snowboard
reinvent myself
start a savings account
