Renewalsh had a very -um - INTERESTING - trip home
as a ‘hero’ rather than a ‘victim’.
I protected people and shielded them from direct attack.
Thefact that some,such as SR, never even said thank you – is a sign of their own shortcomings.
How I did it: I worked on expunging the damage of experiencing the hypocrisy of wicked, self-serving and unethical people who espouse 'spiritual and emotional intelligence' but are nothing like that at all. What they mean by spiritual and emotional intelligence is kow-towing, sycophantic and spineless behaviour that accepts unethical treatment of staff as the norm.
Whereas I detest these individuals, and all that they stand for, I applaud myself for not becoming like them and treating people as commodities.
Lessons & tips: See the strong ethical 'platinum filament' as a test of behaviour.
Resources: Integrity. Refusal to accept unethical treatment of vulnerable people by those holding the purse strings.
Renewalsh had a very -um - INTERESTING - trip home
as a ‘hero’ rather than a ‘victim’.
I protected people and shielded them from direct attack.
Thefact that some,such as SR, never even said thank you – is a sign of their own shortcomings.
Renewalsh had a very -um - INTERESTING - trip home
as it indicates a negative mindset: I didn’t do anything wrong. I do not need forgiveness – the people who wronged me do. They are unethical, self serving, greedy, devious and hypocritical.
I detest them, and their exploitative, fickle and selfish actions.
Renewalsh had a very -um - INTERESTING - trip home
them and that place from my mind. Very disturbed to have had a very nasty dream the other night. Hate it!
Renewalsh had a very -um - INTERESTING - trip home
My two greatest supporters say that I should wipe ‘that place’out of my mind completely. But being a bit OCD, that’s very difficult.
Renewalsh had a very -um - INTERESTING - trip home
Nothing, actually – not that I am blameless for what went wrong, because if I had been spineless, compliant, lily-livered, unwilling to speak out against injustice, wrong doing, manipulation, bullying – then I would have remained ‘flavour of the month’.
The organisation I am talking of is sick, run by a narcissistic trio of co-dependents. (Dargon, the ego maniac who models himself on Atilla the Hun and Alexander the Great; Coleslaw, apparently sweet but deeply manipulative and devious; and Ex, whose name contains none of the letters in the word SEX but whose raison d’etre is the same.)
What I did wrong was to stay there longer than I should have.
What I did wrong was to allow the destructive comments to get to me.
What I did wrong was to allow them to get to me.
What I did right was to leave.
What I did right was to vow never to let anyone treat me like that again.
What I did right was to vow to act ethically, honestly and with integrity in all my dealings with people and organisations.