go to a public BDSM club and play.

Went to club dressed in drag, latex skirt, stockings, high heels. Very nervous. Eventually Mistress asked if I wanted to play and if so how. Sheepishly said yes and told her want to be spreadeagle with hands in restraints and legs in spreader bar. She took my hand led me to the play area and put my hands in cuffs and legs in spreader bar.

Totally helpless then she paddled me on latex skirt with leather paddle. Initially very scary but then loved it.

ll the marks, slept like a happy baby that night, LOVED it. OMG memories. I found myself buck naked, strapped to a piece of furniture, on the front stage of a big playspace (Think a skating rink with about fifteen ‘stations’ and more than fifty people). Most of those people were complete strangers, not people I knew.

Was there for a kink party. In my particular first experience (Been to a few since then), I dove right in.

I do NOT recommend such an action for others.

My experience was very fun. I enjoyed it a lot, came home, took pictures of all the marks, slept like a happy baby that night, LOVED it. OMG memories. I found myself buck naked, strapped to a piece of furniture, on the front stage of a big playspace (Think a skating rink with about fifteen ‘stations’ and more than fifty people). Most of those people were complete strangers, not people I knew.

That made it hotter. Had my ass beaten thoroughly, was flogged to a point of bleeding, and enjoyed the sensation of a violet wand. The stimulation and the experience were absolutely incredible.

My experience does not reflect everyone’s, and you really MUST know what you’re doing, and who you’re doing it with. Some states even have laws barring this behavior. That said, it can be very very fun. My next adventure is to find some more people with whom to play, I’m a young switch, so it would seem easy, but not always. LeSigh All I need is another good beating to hold me over, lol.

Experiencing my BDSM and Bondage fantisies is something I’ve wanted to do for years – I will do it one day..

the first time, but ecspecially if you’re a bit of an exhibitionist, it’s a thrilling feeling