become more interesting

I am reading all of these interesting posts about goals and ambitions and I find myself wondering what I could do to become a more dynamic and interesting person. I do not feel that I am at a loss of friends but I find myself not having the personal depth of character that I would like. Don’t get me wrong I am ‘that’ guy, everyone wants to be around me and many want to be my friend, but I think if I knew me I would think I was a douche.

I would love to have more to say to people when I talk to them. I think my insecurity ruins what I have to say and also the fact that I’m not doing anything interesting for myself. I need to “spice up my life” and take more risks.
Don’t be afraid! Don’t be very afraid!

Sometimes I feel like I boring people like right now I don’t know I just think I should learn to become more of an interesting person don’t you?????